| One day rich man
Anathapindika came to Jetavana monastery, where Lord Buddha was residing. After
paying homage, he sat at a suitable place. At that time Lord Buddha said to
Anathapindika 'In this human world there are four kinds of happiness that human
beings can attain.
(1) Atthi Sukha — happiness
of having wealth
(2) Bhoga Sukha — happiness of using the
wealth
(3) Anya Sukha — happiness due to being
free from debts
(4) Anavajja Sukha— to be free from
faults
These are the four kinds of happiness.
(1) People living in this human abode have to
worry when they have no property or wealth for food, clothing and shelter for
the present, and also worry for the future. If they should acquire wealth by
unlawful means they have to think and worry about the punishment that would
befall them.
Those who acquire wealth by lawful means are
happy themselves and also make parents, children, workers and friends staying
together happy. Because they can give donation to sangha and those who come to
ask for donation, they get the benefit of happiness.
That is why Lord Buddha discoursed that those
who have acquired wealth lawfully by physical effort and by intellect are happy
in this human world.
Motto: Having wealth is one of the causes
of happiness.
(2) Those who have not acquired wealth
lawfully will be unhappy for want of food, clothing and shelter. They will also
make their parents, children, relatives and workers who are their dependants
unhappy. They will be unhappy because they cannot donate to those who have come
to ask for donation.
Those who have acquired wealth by lawful
means, could distribute food, clothing and the like among parents, relatives
and workers. They could also divide and donate to monks and those who come and
ask for donation.
That is why Lord Buddha preached that to be
able to divide things and using them and to be able to donate things are causes
of happiness.
Motto: Using things and donating are the
cause of happiness.
According to Lord Buddha's instructions,
wealth acquired through lawful means must be divided into four portions. One
portion must be used for parents, children, friends and those who ask for
donation. Two portions must be used for investment. One portion must be kept by
for emergency.
(3) Those who do not acquire wealth lawfully
and are poor
(a) to be so poor as to take loan
and to be in debt is the cause of unhappiness.
(b) to have to borrow is unhappiness.
(c) to have to promise that one will repay the
debt is unhappiness.
(d) to be asked by the lender to repay is
unhappiness.
(e) to be chased by the money-lender is
unhappiness.
(f) to be imprisoned for not being able to pay
back is unhappiness.
In this way, those who are in debt will have
to worry and suffer all kinds of misery.
Those who are free from debt because they
have acquired wealth by fair means are free from borrowing, from having to
promise that they would repay, from being asked to repay, from being chased by
money lenders from being imprisoned for not being able to pay back the money.
Thus they live happily and peacefully.
That is why Lord Buddha discoursed that to be
free from debt is a kind of happiness for people living in this world.
Motto: Free from debt, is one of the causes
of happiness.
(4) Happiness due to faultlessness means:
(a) to be free from fault
physically
(b) to be free from fault verbally
(c) to be free from fault mentally are all
happiness.
(a) To be free from fault physically means:
Physically abstaining from killing,
abstaining from stealing, abstaining from sexual misconduct. These are
physically free from fault,
Motto: Killing shortens life, abstaining
prolongs life. Stealing makes scarcity of things, abstaining have things in
abundance.
Sexual misconduct causes hatred, abstaining
makes one loved,
As stated above having a long life in the
present existence, being free from diseases, being wealthy, being loved and
respected by others are benefits which make one happy. In future lives also one
will be happy in the noble deva realm etc. with luxuries.
(b) To be free from fault verbally means:
Not telling lies, not to slander so as to
cause disharmony, not using abusive and harsh language not having frivolous
talk. These are verbally free from fault.
In everyday life, because people have to talk
according to circumstances it is more difficult to be free from fault verbally
than physically. Sometimes circumstances lead you to tell lies. Sometimes
circumstances lead you to slander. Sometimes circumstances lead you to use
harsh language. Sometimes circumstances lead you to frivolous talk. That is why
it is more difficult to stay verbally free from fault.
Families, teachers and pupils, living
together should be specially careful not to use harsh language. Sometimes
because parents and teachers wish to make their children and pupils become good
they have to use harsh language. But this does not amount to harsh language.
Only if they have intentions it becomes a harsh language.
However if words are sweet but the intention
is harsh it amounts to harsh language.
Once, a ruler of a country, a king while
having audience with princes and ministers, the news that a notorious rebel was
caught was reported. The king, not wishing to use harsh language in the
presence of honourable audience, said 'take the rebel into the jungle and let
him sleep.' Though the words were sweet his intention was death and it amounted
to harsh language.
Though harsh words are used, if the intention
is not harsh it is free from the fault of using harsh language.
Long ago, a mother and son lived together in
the same house. Since they did not think alike they quarrelled now and again.
The son said 'I can no more live together with such a rough and harsh mother. I
shall leave this house and go and live elsewhere.' So saying he left the house.
The mother, not wishing him to leave, cursed
him 'if you go, may you be gored to death by a wild female buffalo in the
jungle, on your way.'
The son refused to listen and left through
the jungle. Just as the mother had said a female wild buffalo came charging
with great speed and came close. Knowing that be could not escape he prayed and
made a vow, 'if what mother said was unintentional, may the buffalo not gore,
if it was intentional let the buffalo gore me'. The female buffalo, as though
she did not see the boy whom she would gore, went away.
Like the words of the mother, though they
were rough, the intention not being harsh it did not amount to harsh speech or
language.
Those who wish to be faultless in their
speech there are five factors to fulfil.
(1) speaking at a proper time
(2) speaking the truth, without lies
(3) speaking with gentle words
(4) speaking that is beneficial
(5) speaking with metta, loving kindness
If the speech is complete with these five
qualities it is faultless and gain merit as well as happiness.(Am 2/213)
Those who are faultless in speech and have
good morality or sila:
(1) acquire wealth or property
easily;
(2) have good reputation;
(3) can enter functions with all kinds of
audience
(4) seeing good signs at the time of death and
dying peacefully; and
(5) they can reach celestial realms in future
lives, and they are also happy in this life. (Am 2/221)
(c) Mentally faultless means.
(1) Not planning to get other people's
property by unfair means with lobha.
(2) Not planning with dosa for other people to
deteriorate and die.
(3) Restraining from thinking wrongly that
there is no good or bad kamma.
These are mentally faultless.
Motto: Physically, verbally and mentally
faultless is a way of happiness.
To be faultless mentally is more difficult
than to be free from fault physically and verbally. The mind that has been
unruly for many lives is difficult to defeat. It changes very rapidly and tends
to dwell on bad sense object. If it is purified and becomes faultless one will
realise nibbana and the door of apaya will be closed. That is why it is of
vital importance to purify the mind and be faultless.
To purify the mind and become faultless one
has to practise satipatthana vipassana. For yogis who practise satipatthana
vipassana, two things are accomplished by every noting. On one side lobha,
dosa, moha, ditthi, the impurities of the mind are eliminated. On the other
side, to get to the ultimate goal nibbana, concentration nana becomes
strengthened and mature, When vipassana insight is complete and reaches magga
nana the impurities of the mind are entirely eliminated and reach the noblest
nibbana.
Atthi Sukha — happiness of
having wealth
Bhoga Sukha — happiness of using wealth
Anya Sukha — happiness due to being free
from debts.
All these happiness do not even amount to one
sixteenth part of the happiness of being faultless in body, speech and mind.
Lord Buddha had discoursed that to be faultless physically, verbally and
mentally is many many times happier.
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