Do some reading
Decide what you want to achieve
Ask around
Interview your therapist!
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All I can give you in the end is my personal and professional advice. It won't be 100% accurate, it won't be 100% fair. It is sincerely intended to try to steer you towards a pleasant and effective encounter with a therapy and therapist right for you.
With that in mind I'm going to offer you a couple of tips:
- Do some reading. Buy a copy of Kindred Spirit,
keep an eye open for articles in your favourite magazines or dentists'
waiting room. Try to build up at least vague picture of what's out there
and what's involved.
- Try to make sure you know what it is you
want to achieve. Not as easy as it sounds, I know, but it does
help. Despite the toe-curling claims I've seen made (no, I'm not naming
names) complementary therapies are not cure alls; they have strengths
they have weaknesses and they have plenty of situations where they're
neither use nor ornament. . And while we're on the subject, if you do
have something worrying you, I'm sorry to bang on about this (he lied)
but have you seen your doctor? If you have a physical
problem which is worrying you enough for you to be considering therapy
check in with your doctor first. It's at most a couple of hours out
of your life and it could save it. Makes sense to me.
- Ask around. By now a surprising
number of people have tried complementary therapies. Hopefully most
of them have had good to middling experiences. Again try to build up
a picture of what's going on; don't just pick the first name out of
the phone book and don't pick the flashiest advert; some of the best
therapists I know have stopped advertising because they're too busy.
On the other hand a lot of beginners don't advertise. You can't rely
on advertising.
- Interview your therapist! Phone
your prospective therapist up. Speak to them. Do you feel comfortable?
Do they make big promises? Do they assume they know how to help you
before they've even seen you? Do they seem over-friendly? Arrogant?
Humans have subtle alarm bells which warn us if someone's a phoney or
not. Use them.
- Here's the contentious one - Stay with recognised
qualifications. For Massage that's the FHT
and ITEC. There are impressive 'International Institute' type qualifications
which you can buy for fifty quid a year and stick after your name. There
are professional organisations out there who could fit their entire
membership on a bus. If you have to complain about one of their members
you could find yourself complaining to that member's friends, and at
the very worst what are they going to do - kick him or her out of an
organisation that could fit its entire membership on a bus. Woo hoo.
Stick with the big qualifications.
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