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We
knew the day that Janine was born - June 5, 1975 - that we
had a very special young lady in our family.
She
was born on Referendum Day - for those who remember - whether
we should be in the European circle or not! I
was determined to vote but by the time Jim had returned from
work, Janine was well on the way to being born - she never
could wait patiently!
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I marched
up to the voting station and a policeman informed us that
we couldn't park outside the door. Jim asked him if he knew
how to deliver babies as I was in labour but determined to
vote.
He
very quickly gave us an escort into the voting booth and then
to the hospital we went.
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Jim and Kitty Ledger
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Janine
was born about two hours later. When her brother saw her,
he just cuddled her and said: "Ah, baby..." He was
15 months old and this bond has remained with them ever since.
From
an early age, Janine was into everything - with the help of
her big brother - and at the age of just six months, had her
first taste of mouse - yes, mouse! Our cat, Tigger, had brought
her a little pressie and with the help of her brother, she
was chewing away merrily on its head, leaving me to find two
teeth in her mouth. Ugh! The doctor said it wouldn't harm
her and to give her salted water to make her sick. So we did
and with the determination that has always shown in Janine,
she drank it down like a good 'un and wasn't sick at all.
We
knew then that this little girl of ours had the determination
to go far.
Another
incident was when Janine and her brother were playing in the
garden - they must have been about four and five years old
- and the wind blew berries up their noses. Guess what - they
were stuck up their noses! Even to this day, they have never
changed their stories and still say that the wind blew the
berries up their noses. Fortunately, we managed to remove
Janine's berries but it took a full medical team and an anaesthetic
to remove James's. What imaginative thinking that mum and
dad would actually believe that the wind could do such a thing!
School
was a trial for her and she hated most of her days there,
spending most of her younger school days on the teacher's
knee, hugging her teddy. Senior school wasn't much different
and she didn't really start enjoying it until the latter years
(later GCSE days and A-level days), but her determination
to be a teacher and help children was always there.
She
spent a lot of her spare time babysitting. In fact, one of
her bridesmaids is one of the children who she babysat for
and promised if she ever got married that she could be her
bridesmaid.
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loved university and although it took time for her to settle,
she eventually found her real niche in life and loved her four
years at Nene, in Northampton, and made some wonderful friends,
two of whom are her bridesmaids. We spent many an hour on the
phone with her during those four years, hearing of her exploits
as a student and a trainee teacher and the joy she used to get
from teaching. |
Nene
College, Northampton
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Her
first teaching job was at Holly Primary School in Forest Town,
Mansfield, and she loved every minute of her time there. For
the first year, she lived at home and we soon realised that
the travel from East Leake to Mansfield was telling on her.
She soon found the journey extremely arduous.
By
this time, Tim was a very permanent person in her life and
it was now that they decided to set up home together in Belper.
At first, we were quite upset that she was going to live so
far away from us (45 minutes) but as time has gone on, we
found that we see more of her now than we ever have. Now
Janine and Tim have bought their own home in Belper and life
seems pretty good for them both.
Like
most girls, Janine had one or two boyfriends - one or two
we liked and one or two we were indifferent about! The day
we met Tim, we knew there was something different about him.
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first real encounter with Tim was the day of Janine's 21st.
As a surprise, we had decided to take Janine to London for the
day with lunch at Harrods. James, her brother, came along with
his friend. The whole day we were there, she kept reminding
us that she had to be back in Northampton before 8pm because
she was going out with this Tim! So we dutifully returned her
well in time for her date. |
Harrods,
London
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Not
wanting to miss the opportunity of embarrassing her, we decided
to hang around and see this Tim. She tried her hardest to
get rid of us, but to no avail. Anyone who knows us will know
that we are terrible for tormenting!
Tim
was taking a slow stride down the road that Janine was living
on when James spotted him. Never having met Tim, he hung his
body out of the car window and shouted: "Yo Tim! Are
you going on a date with my sister?"Poor Tim and poor
Janine, because the more she tried to stop her bro embarrassing
her, the more he did it!
Anyway,
this obviously didn't put Tim off the family because he has
now joined us as a permanent feature. We are all very pleased
to have him as part of our family and I know that Jim in particular
enjoys the fact that he can go trekking with Tim on holiday.
Jim also joins Janine and Tim for their main holidays for
one of their two weeks' holiday (I am afraid I don't fly!),
but is quite put out that Tim hasn't invited him on their
second week of their honeymoon!
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have been many proud moments in our lives that Janine has given
us but we think that the most outstanding one was the time she
walked the Pembrokeshire Coast Path with her dad to raise money
for a school in The Gambia. It
was one of the hottest summers we have known for a long time
and the 160 miles-plus journey took them just 10 days! It was
a very difficult walk. |
The
Pembrokeshire Coast
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Those
who know Wales will know how mountainous it is - especially
around the coastal paths. Some
days when I picked them up from the finishing point for the
day, Janine looked as if she wanted to give up - aching feet
and legs, very, very tired, always so hungry and just wanting
to enjoy a relaxing holiday on the beach. But her will and
determination made her continue and in doing so, she raised
almost £2,000 for the school. They managed to build a classroom
with the money and have named it in her honour.
She
still strives to collect more money for the school and has
even spoken of visiting the country one day, but unfortunately
the area is a very dangerous part of the country with rival
factions always fighting and foreigners often being taken
as hostages, as were the children of the headmaster of the
school, although safe and sound now! Again, this is a part
of Janine that we know and love.
This
article isn't meant to be the life story of Janine but just
a little insight into our daughter and how we knew that when
she grew up, she would be someone of whom we would be very
proud, and we are!
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dedicated life as a teacher and how much she cares for all her
children, her love for Tim, her desire to have a lovely homely,
welcoming home to their family and friends and the love and
care she gives to their two cats, Macavity and Martha, makes
Janine what she is and we know that with her marriage to Tim,
this will develop and mature and hopefully, in time, they will
have their own family. |
Martha
(left) and Macavity
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We
are very proud of our daughter and know that through hard
work, determination and a will to make things happen that
she is what she has become today - a very kind, caring and
selfless young lady who just wants to give all she can to
everyone!
Jim
and Kitty Ledger,
Janine's parents.
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