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The death cert of Mary Taylor in Sep 1891, helped sort all this out. Mary , married name Shaw, was the daughter of Thomas Taylor and Catherine Dewar. The death cert is witnessed by Thomas O'Grady.
1841. Alexander, Catherine, Mary, Charlotte and David Balfour all living in Castle Wynd, Stirling with Mary's illegitimate 2 year old son, Thomas O'grady, though noted as Thomas Balfour in the census. Mary is shown as Mary Balfour but I believe she was actually Mary Taylor; it was often the case that a whole family were recorded in the census by mistake under the head of the household's name.
1851. Alexander, Charlotte, David Balfour and Thomas O'Grady (noted as O'Grady this time) all at 5 Upper Bridge St. Stirling. Alexander's wife Catherine had died by this time. There is no sign of Mary.
1881 . This may be Mary in 1881 at Rushall, Staffordshire.
1891. There was a 70 year old Mary Taylor living with Thomas Geddes (O'Grady) and his family at Mosside Cottage, Slamannan. There is no relation noted between Mary and Thomas only that she was widowed and born in Deptford, England.
| 1 | MARY (father THOMAS TAYLOR) | liaison with | THOMAS O'GRADY, The Honourable | |
| c.
1821, Deptford, England
d. 25 Sep 1891, age
69, Limerigg, Slamannan. Mary's name shown as Shaw on
Thomas's death cert. |
There is no absolute proof that the Honourable Thomas O'Grady was indeed the father of Mary's son Thomas, but it looks highly likely. It is interesting to note the dates of his leave of absence from duty in the West Indies around the time of young Thomas's birth. There must also have been some contact well after his birth as The Hon. Thomas was a Captain in 1839 when Thomas was born and made Major in 1846. Thomas jnr. used the name GEDDES in preference to O'GRADY in the 1881 and 1891 census, but there is as yet, no clue to why he changed his name. | |||
| 2nd marriage | John Shaw, Iron Dresser | |||
| d. before 1891 | ||||
| 2 | Charlotte (father ALEXANDER BALFOUR) | m. | John Marlin, coalminer | |
| c.
17 Mar 1829, Scots Church, Woolwich, Kent, England (tbc)
Milliner in 1851 d. 6 Dec 1902, age 72 at Colense? Cottage, Dykehead, Shotts. Son Thomas Marlin at Home Cottage, Shotts |
died before Charlotte
(still haven't ruled out a marriage to William Robert Gaskin in 1852) |
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| 3 | David (father ALEXANDER BALFOUR) | |||
| c.
10 Jun 1832, Saint Luke, Old Charlton, London, England (tbc)
Weaver in 1851 |