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In Memory of Tommy Fox (1981-2002) - Mar 2002 |
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Web Condolences Archive: March 2002 sarah at 23:23:53 Sunday March 31 2002 I am missing you so much Tom, not a day goes by and I havn't thought about you. I went to the cemetary today and was chatting away to you and I just hoped that you could hear what I was saying. It is so hard to leave you there, I love you so much Tom and just wish all the time that you would come back. I look at your web site every day, somehow it makes me feel closer to you. All my love forever Tom, Sarah xxxxxxxxx
jodie at 13:21:45 Sunday March 31 2002 i know this is going to be really hard but i sm thinking about u all the time emz tommy ur were agreat bloke u alwaus knew how to make people smile! all the girls are rite emily will be taken care care of coz they will make sure of it! i know im not there but i wish i was just to give emily a big hug and tell her everything is gonna b alrite but i cant do that! emily angie and alf i love u all and i hope to see you all soon! tommy ill miss you and you keeping on shining on us! you will be dearly missed all my love always and foreva jodie xxxxx
Scott at 16:7:14 Saturday March 30 2002 Sorry Im only doin this now but its been a bit hard lately ! suppose I was tryin to put it off really but... ! I know its been a few weeks but I still cant believe it actually happened but I know now it has. Took a while to sink in matey but the last few weekends when I get a bit of time to myself my emotions have got the better of me Im sorry to say. This little world of ours is funny/twisted one that never, ever seems to make much sense to me (and probably never will). One of the very few things that did was you, and for such a young chap you always had a good vision and a plan of where you're goin and what ya gonna do when ya get there, wish I could say that about meself. You're a better smarter fella than most of the plums out there. If you'd seen the bods that came to see you off mate Im tellin ya it was staggering and as Ronnie said "You can tell a lot about a man by his friends and by looking around this hall, well .... !". You had a lot of good ones and whilst I aint been the longest or the best or seen as much of you as I would have liked we have had some cracks and I do dearly miss them. You were a light in a lot of peoples life and not seeing you in the mornings, or evenings when I'd pop in for a bit, have a laugh and go back home has made mine darker. You had a kind of jolly, unphaseable attitude about life and never, ever had a bad word or view about anyone. You took them all as they came and never judged or critised anyone (to me at least) even when I told you about some bods you just waved it off and made up your own mind. Not many people do that and certainly not as easily as you did, you didnt even have to try. Sorry its happened but I know you're fine where you are and as me and one of your London boys said to each other on you're wave off I bet you was looking down at us laughing you're ass off, 2-300 people suited and booted, standing in the mud and pissin rain, you've just gotta have the last laugh everytime ! Miss ya bruv
Emily your little sister xxxxx at 1:3:36 Saturday March 30 2002 Hi tom, Only me, its really late i should be sleeping now but i cant! I miss you so much. The new kitchen is being put in which you would have loved because i know you was looking forward to that. I remember that tuesday morning 5th of march you woke up and i woke up and you was getting ready to go to work i will always remember you went out that front door saying c ya later emz yeah.....but tom you never came home, I miss u so much i just want to see your lovely face again with a big smile and tell me i have been dreaming too long. Night angel, love you forever.
mrychrstn at 21:24:8 Thursday March 28 2002 from Nick Grigorian and his mum Mary. May all our sympathies go to all his family and friends in the knowledge that where ever he may be he will be grateful for the love and kindness that he received, but more importantly the love and kindness that he showed to everyone who was lucky enough to have known him.
kerrie at 18:17:59 Thursday March 28 2002 Hello Tom. i hope you are reading this and know that we are all still thinking of you and know that i still miss u and think of u as much as i did 3 weeks ago and always will. I sit down some times and think about whats happened and still cant get my head around it and why it had to be you. i really want to know that you are alright and that you are with us all the time i never stop thinking about u please tell me you know that. thank you for making the sun shine on my birthday it felt to me like you hadnt forgotten and that was your little way of telling me. I missed your tex message saying happy birthday. all i am worried about Tom is that you are okay where you are and that you are with people who loved you like all of us down here do, and we do so much!!!!! everytime i see a little nova i think to my self "thats Tom" but then realise that its not but i wish it was so much. i hope your reading this as im writing it and i wish you could reply but i know that someday i will see you again which comforts me and im not scared any more. all the flowers where you lay are so fresh still because they are full of our love to you keeping them alive i miss you more and more each day Tom and will never forget the fun memories we have shared i just imagined that there would be more memories to come as we got older. i dont want to go cos it feels like im talking to you but should as i have rambeled on too long!!! I love you Tom and Miss you sooo much but will speak to you again soon okay All my love babes Kerrie x x x
Jay K at 16:21:18 Thursday March 28 2002 Tom, mate, Almost every day I come into this site and read everyone's thoughts, every time I end up breaking down and crying, having to rush out of my office to the Loo. Since I first heard the news, I've thought about you every day, looking through the photos of you and when you were young, just breaks my heart knowing such a tragedy could happen to such a sweat lad. I can't seem to find the words appropriate to explain how I feel - I miss you so much, more than you'll ever know. Tom, when you read this - its my way of giving you a big warm hug from a distance that neither of us can move out of the way.
Lesley Wallder at 6:47:20 Thursday March 28 2002 Tom...... Its Gavins Mum ...... Ilook at this web site every day I hope you do too....Your photos remind me of what a happy boy you were..... I miss you and I still cant beleive that I wont ever see you again. Wherever you are be happy... Love now and always Lesley
Anon at 22:59:53 Tuesday March 26 2002 Hi Tom, it's Greig. It's been three weeks since you passed away but I still think about you every day. I know that as time goes on I will think about what has happened to you less, but I want you to know that deep down in my heart you will always be there. My memories of you will last forever. R.I.P Tom I love you.
LIZ & LAUREN at 14:47:53 Tuesday March 26 2002 We only met you the once, but through Emily it felt as though we'd known you alot longer. We know how Emily feels about you by some of the stories that we've heard and the way that she speaks about you. We know that Emily misses you loads but we'll be there for her any time she needs us. thinking of you x
Emz (little sis) at 13:18:33 Tuesday March 26 2002 Hiya tom, its only me again! Its tuesday today and is 3 weeks and does not seem real to me that you are gone. You will be in my heart forever though and i love you so much. Its not the same without you here :o(. I dont understand why it happened to you, you ment everything to everyone you was great and still are. I miss you so much, i had my first dream about u the other night 2 and you told me it was a mistake and that you are still here :o(! I miss your smile, i miss your silly voice, i miss me coming into your room and talking to you, i just miss everything about you!!! Its so empty around here nothing is the same and it never will be. I have a picture of me and you on my wall, you look great!! Anyway i will write another message soon i love you so much! Love emily xx Love you xx
Livia at 11:13:42 Tuesday March 26 2002 Hi Tom, Liv here… It’s been three weeks now and Still I can’t believe that you are gone!!!! Theres so many reminders. Even things like the guy at work has your same black and white puma trainers..stuff like that…. I had a dream about you last night, I’ve had about 6 actually since you’ve gone.. Last night was horrible though, U came back and I was chatting with you telling you to take it easy coz you were still well ill, and then Em cam in and you were cuddling her and that. And as time went on you were getting better. But then I woke up and I was so upset.. Joel dreamt about you too the other night and he was gutted when he woke up… Hey Tom, your sis and Ems came round for dinner on Friday, it was wicked!!! We had spag bowl, a few bottles of wine and then played Who wants to be a millionaire on the playstation.. Remember when we all used to play that, you were rubbish, Ems was getting all the questions right for you… We stayed up till about 2ish until we all went to kip, and then when I got up in the morning, your sis and Em were doing all the washing up (nutters) Emily had told your sis to be quiet whilst doing it cause she knew that if I heard I wouldn’t let them do it…too right!!!! But Tom, they didn’t fool me, I heard the tinkering of cutlery being washed, so I jumped up,.. But they wouldn’t let me take over…Your sis reminded me of you actually…You were always so polite and tidy.. Every time you were round ours you would always try and clean up and that… Never let you though ay!!!! On Sunday me and Joel found a video tape with you on it… It was brilliant seeing you!!! And it was great coz we were all having a laugh too. You were obviously chatting nonsense along with me, and pulling your faces that you did… It was pucka seeing it, but still hard coz u are gone man…. I love you Tom, and we all miss you soooooo much.. It’s been so hard, but we’re all being strong 2gether!!! I know I’ve written oh here about five million times, but I can’t help it… Anyway sweety, I will write again soon, but you know you’re always in my thoughts and heart!!! Big kiss darlinxxxx Liv…P.S Love to Angie and Alf...we're all thinkin of you xxx
Ronnie at 10:33:44 Sunday March 24 2002 How you doing Tommy Boy. The Ronsta here mate. It's Sunday morning and I'm wide awake cos I didn't go out last night. what a surprise eh! I just wasn't in the mood. I did go out on Friday Night though to Charlie's birthday party, whifh was really good. A few of us went into the jacuzzi in the garden which was great fun. I really do wish that you could have joined us as I know you would have enjoyed it. You were probably looking down and pissing yourself laughing at everybody getting soaked in their clothes (or not as the case may be). I had a dream about you last night and every day since you have gone, I cant stop thinking about you. I went to see you yesterday with Em and Emz and that brought back a few memories. I miss you so much Tommy Boy and so much wish you could be there when I go out as you always used to be. It's not quite the same without you and it probably never will be. Love you loads and keep smiling mate and I will try to do the same.xxxxxxx
Little sister at 17:53:54 Friday March 22 2002 Hiya bro! Hows it going up there?! Hope its ok! You have kept the sun shining on us for the last couple of days try and make that last for us, I am going to Joel and livs tonight to stay which is lovely isnt it! I hope you will come with us because i know you like it there too. I am still missing you like mad, i cant believe i have lost my one and only brother, but you are always with me and in my heart! I just wait for you every day to come back but i know you wont be. I came to see you again today with aaron and that, they wanted to say hello. I want you to come and see me one day, but i am scared. Your friends are so great and are looking after me, so are my friends too. Everyone is just missing you like crazy but there will be a very special day when you come back to see us wont there, I am still looking at you every night that lovely bright twinkling star and i know its you winking hehe! I went out on sunday to asylum rave! Oh geez tom it was great and i loved being with your friends because i was there and i knew it was what you did every weekend nearly and believe me i dont blame you it was great!!! You can still do that up there though cant you!! As emily said, she could write for hours, so could i, i have so much to tell you i just really want to hug you and see you go out to the cinema and go to ronnies etc but its not going to happen, time has gone so quick but the pain is not going and i dont think it ever will!! Anyway i best be off and joel is coming to pick me and emily up soon oh yeah and hes picking you up too :o(! Love you always and forever just say you'll love me forever 2 tom (hairy toeeeeeees) Love you, your sis....forever.
Lucy at 16:28:52 Friday March 22 2002 Hey Tom ! How you doing man ??? Telling everyone the gossip up there ? I went to your rave the other night, was cool...but then it was all a bit too hard for me...I bet you were laughing your arse off up there at me !!!! It was n't my thang !! But it was great to see all your mates and seeing what you loved doing so much..you would have looked SO good up on those decks. Guess what ! I have got a little Boo on my desk !!! I nicked it from someone else coz I wanted it to remind me of you !!!! Everywhere in the flat theres little bits of you. Is still just so unbelieveable. And guess what !!! My bike was nicked from outside the flat !!!!!! They cou;dn't break the chain, so they broke the pipe it was chained too !!! Can u even believe it !! I was thinking if Tom was coming down tonight, I could tell you and we could compare Enfield crime stories !!! Was all a bit too much so started to cry..again!! Have been at the flat on my own, Em hasn't been back yet, hopefully she is gonna do it this weekend. I've missed her...loads. You would want her to come back wouldn't you ?? We sign the lease next week.....6 months already,,can you believe it !!!!! Hey man, am planning lots of things with Em, trying to keep her busy hey ? I feel as though I'm going on a bit, so much to say.Miss sharing these things with you, miss you so much Tom. Will write again soon. Keep an eye on Emily, she needs to knwo you're there. Love you man ! Lucy Juicy xxxxxx
Emily(his lady!!) at 15:26:28 Friday March 22 2002 Hiya angel face its me!!...I know what ur finkin "again!!".But Im just at work and a bit bored,normally I would fone u 4 a chat but I cant so I thought I would write 2 u instead!!..Well its my 2nd day back at work and its kinda okish so far!!..Wierd though doin normal stuff wivout u ere!!....I miss callin u at lunch time and finding out how u was doin at work!!!..And in the morning makin sure u r up..Everything really!!....Me and lil Em r goin round Joel and Livs 2nite 4 dinner and sttuff,make sure u join us babe!!.....Then Im comin 2 c u 2moro wiv Ron and Nats,so make sure the sun is shining 4 us ok angel?!?..I cant even belive its been nearly 3 whole weeks since u left me!!..Weve never been apart this long!!..I thought it was hard when u went 2 Italy 4 ten days!!...It some ways its gone so quick but the pain still feels like it was yesterday!!..I still lye in bed at night saying "I cant believe hes one,I cant believe I havnt got my lubadly,sexy,angel face Tom anymore!!"....U was the type of person that should have been around 4eva!! ....We were goin 2 be so happy me and u,in r lil house wiv r lil dog and that!!!!..Now I have 2 plan my life wivout u!!!!...I dont even know where 2 start!!..Thankfully Ive got the crew 2 look after me 4 u!!..Rich,Campbell,Liv,Joel all of em r being wicked even though they miss u so much 2!!!...Theres so much I want 2 talk 2 u about,I could go on 4vea..(as usual!!)..But I wont u r only a few clicks of a mouse away so Ill save some 4 another time!!!...Love u so much angel,I feel like my heart is ready 2 burst sometimes!!...Look after yourself up there and the rest of us down ere!!..Bye 4 now sexy bum!!..(ps.I hope u know who these anons r cause I aint got a clue!!)..Love u again!!...xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx(a kiss 4 each day we r apart!!) oh and try and keep Em safe she been gettin a bit frightend at night!!!..Thats all I promise!!xx..apart from I love u again!!!xxxx
Anon at 13:0:20 Friday March 22 2002 I know your shinning down on me from heaven. 4 eva and always babes. Miss ya always!
Anon at 12:54:38 Friday March 22 2002 all i keep asking myself is why do all the good ones go first? much love to you and your family tom.... stay strong just like tom would want you to!
Anon at 7:41:22 Friday March 22 2002 hiya tom i didnt no u very well but i only spoke to u as few days before your accident andd i hope you know who i am as u knew my brother. hoe u are well up there and speak to u soon hopefully
emma salmon at 22:20:30 Thursday March 21 2002 hello tommy i know i hadnt seen u since just after we left school but i never forgot u, how sweet,kind loving and caring u were u will always have a special place in my heart and u will be missed by everyone that knew u. you touched the lives of every person u met even if they knew u for one day that smile of yours would light up a room and my heart goes out to your family angie,alf,emily and girlfriend emily be strong im sure he is looking down on u and everyone that knew him. Tom i wish u knew me and chloe wanted to meet up again coz we had so much to catch up on. i never stopped thinking about u and david i wondered what u were up to. I came to see u last wednesday and u looked so peaceful and different from when i saw u i miss u loads love u lots and wish u were here love to emily and family love emma salmon xxxxxxxxxx
emma salmon at 22:16:16 Thursday March 21 2002 hello tommy i know i hadnt seen u since just after we left school but i never forgot u, how sweet,kind loving and caring u were u will always have a special place in my heart and u will be missed by everyone that knew u. you touched the lives of every person u met even if they knew u for one day that smile of yours would light up a room and my heart goes out to your family angie,alf,emily and girlfriend emily be strong im sure he is looking down on u and everyone that knew him. Tom i wish u knew me and chloe wanted to meet up again coz we had so much to catch up on. i never stopped thinking about u and david i wondered what u were up to. I came to see u last wednesday and u looked so peaceful and different from when i saw u i miss u loads love u lots and wish u were here love to emily and family love emma salmon xxxxxxxxxx
vix at 21:59:18 Wednesday March 20 2002 eazy now tom, howz it goin? it's pretty hard down here, still in shock!!. Just here listening to that lostprophets song!! reminds me of you!!! I was thinking of all the frequent times that we met, and they were all goooood!!! everytime we met you made me laff!!! This yr I will try to go to Glastonbury, as you said we were gonna go when I last spoke to you!! I'll go for you!!. I went to a gig last week it was wiked, i done a surf for you!! it hurt though!! I know that you were watching me doing it, and probaley thought EAZY NOW VIX!! Last sundu was wiked!! the music was cooooolio, if i'd knowen you played that things would be different!!! It is a shame that i had to meet Emily like this but she is even better in perosn then on the net!!! I will try and be strong for Emily but it is hard!! you were and stil are such a big part in her life!! I should of met all your family at a wedding, but fate deals nasty cards!! When I meet you again make sure you have one rolled and ready!! keep it rocking dude!! love ya vix-x-
Charly A at 20:48:0 Wednesday March 20 2002 Hi tom how ya doin up there mate still cant believe that you've gone still doesn't seem real even though its been over 2 weeks. I just want 2 say that i am missing you like mad and things will never b the same without u around i no we didn't speak that often after leavin school but i want u 2 no u will always b in my heart 4ever it seems really strange that someone i've known since i was about 3 isn't here anymore and u will always b my best friend even though u r not here,i still remember the days down at my house every friday nite they were cool weren't they! My mum misses u v much and remembers us playin in ur front gdn with kerrie aswell. I promised i would keep in touch with ur mum,dad and sis who i'm going out with on fri nite. Everybody misses u so badly and we wish that u were back here with us but i'm sure we will meet again soon gonna go now but remember i love u v much and miss u v much 2 bye hun love always Charly xxxxxxx
Livia at 15:18:18 Wednesday March 20 2002 Hi Tom, It’s been just over two weeks now and there hasn’t been one day that’s past that I haven’t thought about you.. I’ve cried so much over the last couple of weeks for you, and I still can’t believe that this has happened and that you are gone. I came to see you last week, I went in with your wicked lil sis and Ems. When I first saw you I just broke down cause I suppose it made it more real, but once I had got over the initial shock we had a lil chat didn’t we. You looked swollen and bruised, and when I held your hand you were so cold, but you still looked beautiful and cool as ever. Your funeral was amazing Tom, nothing like I’ve ever seen before….the police escort, flowers, the turn out…Everything!!!! I bet you were loving all the attention ay!!! I miss you sooo much Tom, I miss out little txts during the week and I missed you on Sunday when we had your night for you. When we all went back to Ronnie’s after, I missed seeing you being stupid and making us all laugh. Joel misses you so much, he hasn’t been himself since you’ve gone, but I’m comforting him for you matey. The thing is, if we miss you this much I can’t imagine what your poor family and Ems are going through. Emily misses you so much, she loves you and just wants you back with her more than anything. She’s being so brave and strong. Just let her see you Tom, come to her in her dreams, if that’s what comforts her then please go to her darlin. That’s where my pain is Tom, with Em and your Family bring them all strength Tommy boy, your lil sis too, make her strong. I’ve got really fond of her, she and Ems are going to come round ours for my famous spag bowl. Anyway Tom, I best stop rambling (as Ronnie would say), but just remember you were, and still are and will be forever loved very much. Speak to you soon sweety.. Livxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Little Emily! at 21:27:7 Tuesday March 19 2002 Hey tom, 2 weeks today, all i can say is i love you! Dont let go of me ever. Love you XxXx
Emily(angelxx) at 13:15:45 Tuesday March 19 2002 Hello babe its Em again..Hope u r doin ok up there??..Not causing 2 much trouble!!..It horrible down ere the weathers been all grey and rainy since uv gone,bit like me really!!..Im misin u so so much down here!!..I would giv anything 4 just 1 last kiss & cuddle!!..I mis the smell of u loads angel!!..Ive dreamd about u a few times since uv gone which is some comfort as its nice 2 have u 4 a lil while but then when I wake up u r gone!!..I know Ive said it b4 but I will say it again please come and see me in my dreams as often as you can,I know u av got loads of other people 2 c,but I love avin u there!..We had the nite 4 u on Sun!It was gr8 u would of loved it..well I know u did!!..So many peolpe were there just 4 u!..It was amazin I was so proud!!..I missed u though!!..Its not quite the same without u there!!..No cuddles,no sexy dancing!..Just me!!..Everyone missies u so much!!..Its starting 2 become real now as its been 2 weeks 2 the day!!.Weve neva been apart this long b4!!..Im so scared cause deep insied I know its goin 2 be even longer!!..I can not wait 2 c u again babe,I know its silly and I know u wouldnt want me 2 say it but sometimes I think the sooner the better!!..I just feel so empty and lost!!..Plaanin my life without u in it jst dont feel right!!....Im goin2 be strong 4 u though and make u proud of me!!..Im goin2 try and do all the things u and me were goin 2 do!!..Anyway Im goin 2 go pooh face!!..I know u know this already but u know how much I love sayin it I LOVED U LOADS AND LOADS I DO YEAH!!!xxxBe safe, always yours Emilyxxxxxx
Emily(angelxx) at 13:9:8 Tuesday March 19 2002 Hello babe its Em again..Hope u r doin ok up there??..Not causing 2 much trouble!!..Im misin u so so much down here!!..I would giv anything 4 just 1 last kiss & cuddle!!..Ive dreamd about u a few times since uv gone which is some cofort as its nice 2 have u 4 a lil while but then when I wake up u r gone!!..I know Ive said it b4 but I will say it again please come and se me in my dreams as often as you can,I know u av got loads of other people 2 c,but I love avin u there!..We had u nite 4 u on Sun!It was gr8 u would of loved it..well I know u did!!..So many peolpe were there just 4 u!..It was amazin I wass so proud!!..I missed u though!!..Its not quite the same without u there!!..No cuddles,no sexy dancing!..Just me!!..Anyway Im goin 2 go pooh face!!..I know u know this alrafy but u know how much I love sayin it I LOVED U LOADS AND LOADS I DO YEAH!!!xxxBe safe, always yours Emilyxxxxxx
Theresa Wain at 14:41:22 Monday March 18 2002 Hi Tom! I know it's taken me so long to write something, but you know me, my timing wasn't my best feature. I will always remember you getting us in trouble when we were in English. I'll miss you and i will never forget your smile. Keep smiling Honey! Lots of Love Theresaxxxxxxx
Little Sister xxx at 0:42:57 Sunday March 17 2002 Dear tom, I know i have left messages on here as you know as well but i came to see you on wednesday...you looked peacefull and also looked cool in your clothes. I held your had and you was so cold i kept looking you in the face and waiting for you to wake up but i just knew you wasnt coming back which made me cry i never wanted to leave you but it got to the point where i had to. I cannot believe i no longer have "tom" as my brother im lost...and heartbroken! I never thought it would happen to you but the main thing is you are looking down on me right now and i look at you, You are my sunshine and also my bright star which you will always be so dont forget that. Also it was your funeral onm thursday which was not so long ago. It was a lovely service but i just couldnt bare to think you have gone and never coming home i just hope that we will meet again one day. You was very well loved and you still are, Your flowers were amazing just like you. Anyway hopefull we will meet again one day but there will always be a hole in my heart which maybe you will be able to replace one day if we meet. Love you bro. Your ickle sister.....Emily xxxxxxxxxxxx
Daniel 'Crim-Dan' Letch at 20:29:14 Saturday March 16 2002 Tom you were a dimond geeza with qualitys that are hard to match, I'll miss you forever. I keep thinking back to all the funny stuff we done together and imagining us having a chat in our mock Scottish accents like we did! I know one day we'll meet each other again and until that day, take care Tommy...x
lisa at 15:30:34 Saturday March 16 2002
Tom's Nan & Grandad at 14:55:52 Saturday March 16 2002 Hi Tom, I think you will agree with us that Conrad has done a great job putting together this web site for you and we would like to give our many thanks to Conrad for a wonderful idea, we know he wanted to do this for you as his contribution and in memory of the years that he has known you. I am sure that everybody would be greatful for all that he has done. You have left us with so many lovely memories to treasure Tom. We love you forever. Love Nan & Grandad God Bless xxx
TRADESTEVE at 8:32:9 Saturday March 16 2002 Tom, after last Thursday I felt I was so right about you...that you were such an amazing guy to know. Full of happiness, laughter and time for others. Had a good chat with your Dad. Your family and Emily showed so much courage that day. Talking to all your terrific friends, what really helped was listening to all their personal accounts of why you were so special to each of them. They all recounted your No.1 smile, sincerity, humour, warmth and appetite for having fun not to mention the effort you always made to be friends. Despite the cold rain on Thursday, just thinking of you and all the good times kept me warm. Just seeing how many people turned up for you made me so proud of you because you touched each and every one of our hearts. Tonight while I'm working at TRADE I'm gonna say a little prayer for you. I know how much you loved your music and boy, you would have loved the TRADE music not to mention the incredible lasers. I'm going to miss you so much! You always brought people together Tom and last Thursday was no exception. One thing I intend to do is to keep reminding myself of all that you stood for - everything good in life and try and emulate that in my own life. You are probably in charge of music policy up there - just make sure in God's House they play HARD HOUSE! When my time is up just make sure my name is on your Guest List ok....as you would usually say,"definitely Steve,most definitely!" Until that day,take care Tom. Always in my thoughts raver! Stephen xxx
Jayne at 17:24:51 Friday March 15 2002 I have some wonderful memories of you as you were growing up Tommy...such a cheeky but loveable kid! I will always remember the times you would look up at me with that cheeky little grin of yours and soppy eyes and say "oh go on, give me a cuddle!"...how could I ever resist! Thats just one of the memories I will always treasure. But Tommy I always admired you too. You were such a loving and giving person with a wonderful zest for life. You always had time to stop and chat and give some more of your cheek! You always knew what you wanted and you worked hard for it all...its such a shame you were never given the chance to fulfil all of your dreams. I always thought this a cruel world, but now I really know. You were such a credit to your family, just as they are to you now. God Bless You Tom and Rest in Peace. Love Jayne xxxxx Angie, Alfie & Emily...You have all been so brave. We are thinking of you. Jean & Jayne xxx
Leanne at 17:6:3 Friday March 15 2002 Hiya Tommy. I didnt know you that well but i know you were the life and soul of the party. you will be deeply missed by everyone who knew you.Every time i saw you, you neva failed to put a smile on my face and that is one reason why everyone loves you.I will neva eva forget you Tommy!I am still shocked beyond belief. What happened was very unfortunate but you'll still be very much alive in the hearts and souls of those who knew and loved you. Don't worry about your little sister coz shes being looked after. I want Emz (sis) to know she is my brave little angel and i'll always be there for her. To angie, alf and emily; stay strong and i think ur all wonderful. U r all being so strong especially u angel! I hear the funeral was lovely and it was absolutely packed which shows how many m8s Tom had. i do not know what else to say except when we meet again we'll ave the biggest, bestest pary eva. Thinking of u and missin u love Wendy, Andrew, Chantelle, Leanne and Roxanne.
Leanne at 17:3:48 Friday March 15 2002 Hiya Tommy. I didnt know you that well but i know you were the life and soul of the party. you will be deeply missed by everyone who knew you.Every time i saw you, you neva failed to put a smile on my face and that is one reason why everyone loves you.I will neva eva forget you Tommy!I am still shocked beyond belief. What happened was very unfortunate but you'll still be very much alive in the hearts and souls of those who knew and loved you. Don't worry about your little sister coz shes being looked after. I want Emz (sis) to know she is my brave little angel and i'll always be there for her. To angie, alf and emily; stay strong and i think ur all wonderful. U r all being so strong especially u angel! I hear the funeral was lovely and it was absolutely packed which shows how many m8s Tom had. i do not know what else to say except when we meet again we'll ave the biggest, bestest pary eva. Thinking of u and missin u love Wendy, Andrew, Chantelle, Leanne and Roxanne.
zoe at 14:10:22 Friday March 15 2002 its took me till today to write this,all i can say is that i will never ever forget the laughs we had and the way we use to tell everyone we were brother and sister(you know why)...we use to get into loads of trouble down the london road club on fireworks nite.whenever you was round my way you always use to give me a knock to let me know what you was up to.i will remember them times always.till we meet again darling be happy.xx p.s if i mess up down here(dont laugh).xxxlaters bro!ha
Kerrie at 13:9:37 Friday March 15 2002 Tom when i saw you on Wednesday it wasnt you, you werent there laughing or smiling cos you werent pleased to see me but i know you are always with me and everyone who loved you. You looked so peaceful but it didnt look right it shouldnt have been you. i think i will think that for the rest of my life. You never had the chance to grow up, have a family and do all the things you should have done. But the time you did have on this weird world you achieved more than most people would in a life time and im so proud of you. Yesterday seeing everone from School again was nice but there was this big space that needed you in it things will never be the same. i missed your laugh. We all got our chance to say good bye yesterday Tom but you stil havent and i wish you could. i know you knwo how much we love you but i wish we could tell you. you were an amazing person and ill love you forever. Kezza (remember when you used to call me that) xXxXx
Jo at 10:12:45 Friday March 15 2002 I was not at your funeral yesterday tom, but that doesn't mean i wasn't thinking of you. You will be in my heart forever even though we never really got to be close friends you were such a beautiful person with so much love to give, the photo of you and Nicholls is how i'll remember you forever coz thats how i knew you. My love goes to your family at this hard time and as others have said I know you will help them through this.Take care Tom, keep smiling on all of us that cared for you, You will be missed and NEVER forgotten. Rest in peace.xxxxx
Lynsey Maciver at 2:31:23 Friday March 15 2002 Tommy, it's been a few years since i saw you last. I can't believe that i won't actually see you again, that cheeky grin of yours! I remember you playing with david, laughing and joking, - always happy. You were a right Pair! I attended your service today - it was beautiful, so many people were there. You were loved by everyone that had the honour of knowing you. Tommy you'll always be in our hearts forever, we have all lost someone so special, stay safe and sleep well. Angie, Alf & Emily you were so brave today, my prayers and thoughts go to you all and to all that knew Tommy. love always & forever Lynsey & Family XXXXXXXXXX
Lynsey Maciver at 2:18:52 Friday March 15 2002 Tommy, it's been a few years since i saw you last. I can't believe that i won't actually see you again, that cheeky grin of yours! I remember you playing with david, laughing and joking, - always happy. You were a right Pair! I attended your service today - it was beautiful, so many people were there. You were loved by everyone that had the honour of knowing you. Tommy you'll always be in our hearts forever, we have all lost someone so special, stay safe and sleep well. Angie, Alf & Emily you were so brave today, my prayers and thoughts go to you all and to all that knew Tommy. love always & forever Lynsey & Family XXXXXXXXXX
Lee Brett at 22:47:31 Thursday March 14 2002 Tom, your smile, that infectous smile of yours will be surely missed and remembered for ever. You brought happiness to everyone. I will miss our long phone conversations and the sound of your laughter. There will be a star shining in the sky as bright as a diamond like the diamond person you were. Tom I feel honoured to have known you, till we meet again, take care. XXX
Lee Brett at 22:44:11 Thursday March 14 2002 Tom, your smile, that infectous smile of yours will be surely missed and remembered for ever. You brought happiness to everyone. I will miss our long phone conversations and the sound of your laughter. There will be a star shining in the sky as bright as a diamond like the diamond person you were. Tom I feel honoured to have known you, till we meet again, take care. XXX
Lesley Wallder at 19:27:25 Thursday March 14 2002 Today was the day of your funeral Tom, our final chance to say Goodbye. Words fail me, All I can think is how much we will all miss you. You have enriched my life and as a result,the pain of your passing seems insurmountable. Angie, Alf Emily and Emily.... you were all so brave today. Tom would have been so proud of all of you. You all know that he would want you to get on with life and I know that somehow, someway he will help you to do this. My thoughts are with you all and please if there is anything I can do ....ask. love and best wishes to you all and Goodbye Tom Ill miss you.
Anon at 18:10:45 Thursday March 14 2002 We didnt really know Tommy but what we do know is that everybody loved and liked him !! and i'm sure that he is smiling down on you all and he is keeping an eye on you all! all we wanted to say God Bless you all and GOD BLESS TOMMY REST IN PIECE XXXXXX LOVE KIMY& Nico
Anon at 18:10:41 Thursday March 14 2002 We didnt really know Tommy but what we do know is that everybody loved and liked him !! and i'm sure that he is smiling down on you all and he is keeping an eye on you all! all we wanted to say God Bless you all and GOD BLESS TOMMY REST IN PIECE XXXXXX LOVE KIMY& Nico
Kimy (jo's sister)& Nico at 18:4:0 Thursday March 14 2002
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Helen B at 17:10:12 Thursday March 14 2002 I only knew Tommy for a short while when I lived near him on Cell Barnes Lane. He was a fun loving teenager with a great personality. I lost my brother when he was only months older than Tommy and I know the pain that his family are going through. Tommy, you will remain in their hearts and soul today and everyday. All my love to you all - you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Anon at 15:30:28 Thursday March 14 2002 My thoughts are with you and your family Tom. All i can say is God Bless and sleep well -x
sandra meyrick and family at 15:13:49 Thursday March 14 2002 to angie alf and emily. thinlking of you today. tom was a wonderfull cheeky lad he was the clown of cunningham hill playground when i was a dinner lady, he was loved by every one he will be sadly missed god bless you all and i know he will keep watch over you all love sandra and family xxxxxxxxx
Debs at 14:36:34 Thursday March 14 2002 Tom Fox what can I say apart from what a waist of a beautifull young life. I know know I did't see you very often but when I did the times were always full of fun and laughter. You will be missed by so many people encluding me. All the love in the world to you Tom and your griving family. XXXXXXXXXXX
Nomsa.K. a.k.a (moosie) at 14:25:18 Thursday March 14 2002 Hey mate. I came to see you of this morning. I just want to let you know that all your family have been ever so brave. Your sister Emily was brilliant 2day i tell ya. You will never be forgotten. When i saw the curtains close i told myself we will meet again and believe, we will Tom. I came to see you 4 da last time with your sister Emz yesterday and i will never 4get how peaceful you looked mate!! Emily your lil sis will be well looked after BELIEVE THAT!! Take care TommyXX. Love Moosie.K
Students at FBS at 13:11:9 Thursday March 14 2002 Hey to Toms's family we are thinking of you more today than any other day!!! We hope your doing ok and being brave. Just wanna say from what we have seen you have been ever so brave and we are very proud of all of you!.Remember tom is smiling down on you and he will want you to carry on he loves you all very much. He will be missed dearly and in everyones hearts always we are here to help if you need us we will be here for you every step of the way and no matter what we love you all and hope to see you soon love you tom love peeps at FBS we love you toms family !!!!!!!!!
Nina Pina at 12:13:54 Thursday March 14 2002 Tommy, It's mad to think i will never see your smiling face again! you will so sorely missed by so many. When i think of all the memories of us growing up together, playing out the front and me getting you to walk the dog with me every day to keep me company. i've just come back from your funeral and i cant beleive how many people were there, you are so loved by so many people including myself. I will always remember you Tom for being such a lovely friendly good looking man! Your will always be in my thoughts love Nina Pina xx
Simone at 12:2:10 Thursday March 14 2002 Tom - It's me Simone, I Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you more today than ever, todays the day when we're all coming together and pay our respects. You're always in my thoughts, its really nice to have you there as it makes me smile when I think of the times we've all had together - the other night me and Jo rememberd the song that we used to sing - do you?? you used to always sing in the park, you were good at it babe, it used to crease us all up! People usually have somehting bad to say about someone somewhere along the lines but I can honestly say I have never heard a abad word about you - ever!! Why? well we all know why, because you are such a diamond, a real magical bloke with the best personality anyone can give. Its going to be hard saying good-bye Tom but I know you'll never be gone completely - promise me you'll take care x x
Sam Martin at 11:46:42 Thursday March 14 2002 i didnt know Tom but one thing i do know is that Tom will be sadly missed by all that knew him. Tom keep looking out for your family, friends & girlfriend who all love u very much. Take care up there all my love Sam.x.x.x
Sam Martin at 11:43:37 Thursday March 14 2002 i didnt know tommy but the one thing i do know is that Tom u will be missed 4eva i hope that one day we will meet and u can make me laugh just like u made everyone else laugh. u will be dearly missed & make sure u look out for your family & ur girlfriend who will always love u everyone will always love u.take care tom all my love Sam.x.x.x. p.s emily if u need 2 talk im here. R.I.P Tommy.x.x.x
Rachel Clarke at 11:42:40 Thursday March 14 2002 Tom, you were one of my best friends and i know we had our ups and downs in the past but that is a part of growing up. i know that you are safe and at peace from this cruel hard world that we live in and i know that one day we will meet up again in heaven. you touched a very speacial place in my heart which will be there forever. i remember how we would we talk on the phone for hours saying that we had to meet up for a gossip but one of us would always cancel because something would come up. we will meet again i promise. LOVE YOU AND WILL NEVER FORGET YOU always and forver god bless you and i will be thinking of you always R.I.P Rachel Angie,Alf,Em+Emily you are all in my thoughts.
Sam Martin at 11:41:46 Thursday March 14 2002 i didnt know tommy but the one thing i do know is that Tom u will be missed 4eva i hope that one day we will meet and u can make me laugh just like u made everyone else laugh. u will be dearly missed & make sure u look out for your family & ur girlfriend who will always love u everyone will always love u.take care tom all my love Sam.x.x.x. p.s emily if u need 2 talk im here. R.I.P Tommy.x.x.x
Sam Martin at 11:41:16 Thursday March 14 2002 i didnt know tommt but the one thing i do know is that Tom u will be missed 4eva i hope that one day we will meet and u can make me laugh just like u made everyone else laugh. u will be dearly missed & make sure u look out for your family & ur girlfriend who will always love u everyone will always love u.take care tom all my love Sam.x.x.x. p.s emily if u need 2 talk im here. R.I.P Tommy.x.x.x
Jack Frost at 9:28:23 Thursday March 14 2002 To the family: I only know Caireen and if Tommy's the same as her then we have all lost someone special. Heaven is a richer place today for the Angels have been blessed with one of their own. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all. Jack Frost
(Taylor) Chris at 2:20:58 Thursday March 14 2002 What can i say foxi u were a good mate and will be dearly missed in my mind and heart. I known u for 16 years thats a longtime to know good mate, u use to live down my street when u were about 4 yrs old and we had some great times together playing about, then u moved but we still grew up together in the schools that we went to, i;ve still got school photos of us when we were in primary, juniour school which will be treasured. We had some great laughs together in and out of secondary school just wished i could of kept in contact a bit more for which the time we had. I still can't believe your gone but wherever u are i hope u find peace and harmony and i will see u sometime in the near future and we will reunite again. God bless miss u forever mate may u R.I.P I will remember u goods times u were one of a kind in everyones heart! Taylor
Emily(angel)xx at 23:59:31 Wednesday March 13 2002 Came 2 c u 2day angel face!!..U looked beautiful!!...I gave u a fw kisses 2 take wiv u 2morow!!..Keep thpose foreva..U can giv me some back when I see u next!!...I hope u liked how I done your hair I think it was my best style yet!!..Seeing u 2day just reminded me how much I love u Tom fox!!..And how much Im goin 2 miss u!!..When I help your hand I just wished u was goin 2 hold mine and tell me all will be ok!!..But u neva!!..I can not wait till we get 2 see each other again babe!!..I dont know what Im goin 2 do with myself from now on!!..Make sure u read my letter angel!!..I know its long!!...I miss u and cant even believe u r gone even more now than b4!!...Make sure u come and visit me in my dreams!!..Keep me strong and safe!!..I try and keep shining 4 u down ere babe, as I was told Im yellow 2 like u!!!..Be wiv me aways ok!!...Miss u again!!!...So much!!!..Love u again!!...More than anyone could ever know!!..Sweet dreams!!xxxxxxxxxxx
Sam Harkness at 22:31:19 Wednesday March 13 2002 Hi Tommy. How are you doing up there? Me and your sister come to see you today and you looked really peaceful! I know you didn't feel it but I was holding your hand-like we all used to when we was little. You used to be in the middle and me and Emily either side. You were always a gentleman or as you would say "geezer". I told you I will always be here for your sister and your family so don't worry whilst your up there just have a good time because one day we will meet again and have a good laugh just like we used to. Love u 4eva and always Sam x x x xR.I.P.
Russell at 21:22:42 Wednesday March 13 2002 What can i say. you were loved and will be dearly missed.
Anon at 19:42:26 Wednesday March 13 2002
billy at 19:41:5 Wednesday March 13 2002 want can i saw i love you berlin you know billy
wendy at 17:37:30 Wednesday March 13 2002 hey Tommy I never really knew you that well, but wot i do know of you its great. Im gonna miss you this summer coz it was only in the summer we met. U used to walk do wn the road or on ur bike with no shirt on tanning up ur all ready tanned body. I'll never forget ur cheeky smile. Hope to see you when its time. love you Wendy. p.s. my heart and thoughts are with ur family. x x x
sue freakes at 16:41:11 Wednesday March 13 2002 dear tom it's been years since i saw you last at cunningham hill jn school when i was a dinner lady and you used to come up to me with your cheeky face and say" well miss im as big as you now" you was always such a lovely lad you will be sadly missed, keep looking down on your family they will know you are there.your one of the angels now and god only takes the best. god bless you tom and your family xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx sue freakes
sue freakes at 16:30:28 Wednesday March 13 2002 dear tom it's been years since we used to joke with each other in the playground at cunningham hill jn sch when i was a dinner lady i will always remember your cheeky smile and how you used to stand in front of me and say "hello miss im as tall as you now" you will be sadly missed by your friends and family keep watch over them tom god bless you.your one of the angels now and god only takes the good ones thinking of you xxxxxxxx sue freakes
Mrs A and Family at 15:57:39 Wednesday March 13 2002 Dear Tom, It's several years ago now since I last saw you, but I shall always remember your visits and the times you stood laughing and chatting on my doorstep trying to win me over! That cheeky, happy-go-lucky teenage lad full of fun and excitement, raring to take life full on. I always admired your spirit, your youthful respect and your politeness but somehow I now believe that your smile and those devilish eyes were really the hidden magic. Your young life is such a tragic loss but heaven has now gained a jewel. God Bless you Tom and God Bless your family.
ROSS ,MANDY,RICK &LEAH at 14:8:8 Wednesday March 13 2002 DEAR ANGIE,ALFIE & EMILY, WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE THE TERRIBLE ANGUISH YOU ARE ALL GOING THROUGH AT THIS SAD AND TRAGIC TIME.WE ARE SHOCKED BEYOND BELIEF.OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU,WE KNOW YOU WILL NEED ALL YOUR RESOLVE TO GET THROUGH;BUT YOU ARE ALL STRONG & WITH YOUR LOVING FAMILY SUPPORT YOU WILL. TOM WAS A LOVELY YOUNG MAN WHO WILL BE SOLEY MISSED;HE WAS ALWAYS LAUGHING AND HAVING A JOKE & WAS SUCH GREAT COMPANY...EVEN FOR AN "OLD GIT " LIKE ME. OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU YOURS EVER XXX
Marie at 13:50:42 Wednesday March 13 2002 Dear Tom, Well a week has passed since you left us and not a day has passed where I havn't thought about you. I didn't realise how much I loved you until now and how much I would miss you. You are a fantastic and special person. And after reading all these you will probably be chuffed as to how popular and loved you were. Well, missing u babe and the day will come when we will see each other again. Love Marie xxxx
emily your lil sis at 23:22:36 Tuesday March 12 2002 Hello tom, Today is the day where it has been a painfull week since you past away. As everyone knows you will always be in our hearts but one thing i wish you was still here at home, chilling watching your t.v etc, but tom your just not there its empty...its getting harder day by day..ive tried being strong but tonight is the night where my tears have not stopped flowing for you. I hope you will always look at me and love me, i look at you and talk to you every night. You was very well loved and its just shocking how amazing you really was. Tom its unbelievable i cannot believe you have gone, im so lonely, no brother, it still does not seem real to me but i know your with me every night still having our little play fights. Anytime you need a friend, im always here, One thing please come back and see me soon i dont think i can go on without you coming back to see me. Love you forver and always....missing your smile and giggles. Love you, love emz (your little sister) xxxxxxx
lee, shelley & sue at 23:21:46 Tuesday March 12 2002 dear tom. i kno we didnt speak much but when i heard i was so shocked. when ever i would walk past u always used to say 'hey'. your one of a kind and will be missed dearly. u always put on a smile. its not the same anymore. just keep watchin over your family and help them get through this. your one in a million tom and u wont be forgotten. our hearts go out to your family. all our love. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
toby and anita well tom.your up there now looking down at us all.hopefully with a big smile.i remember you first meeting me and worried about meeting ems big bruv!at first i took it all with a pinch of salt but we clicked straight away.i just wish i got to know you more and gone out with emily and you on a couple of banging house nights and my drum and bass of course.myself and anita miss you sadly.to my sister emily.big bruv is looking out for you and will be a rock for you.i feel its my duty to be and will take as much of the burden as possible in order to help you through this time of saddness.be strong emily , i am there for you,like we all are.and tom .have a beer for me mate cos i'll be having a few for you.all our blessing toby,anitaXXXX
Evonne at 21:35:36 Tuesday March 12 2002 I didn't have the courage to do this. I've been putting it of for so long! I knew that reading all these messages would remind me of just how special you ARE and make me cry and it has! Deep Breath. How can the world go on with out good old Tommy? Always the one to brighten up the darkest day. Always the one to but a smile on your face. Always the one you'd expect to see in the summer with there shirt off...CORR!!! The sweetest angel has been taken off this earth but the brightest star has been put in the sky. You affected each and everyones life, even if you only knew them for a second, a second with you was like a lifetime of happiness and laughs. You were always full of life and energy, always full of smiles and laughter alwasy full of love and always will be loved. Tears just keep flowing from my eyes! I can't begin to imagine what your family are going through! But I'm always hear for lil' sis Em cause she is so brave and strong, I've aways been there for her and always will be. I know your looking down on us, smiling, bringing us the good weather, the starry nights and the memories. Memories of you in Primary school, even when I started at FBS I remeber talking to you and you making me laugh telling me what teachers to avoid etc. You'll always be in my mind, always making me laugh, smile and cry. Why is it that the most beautiful person is taken from us while the evil ones still remain? A question that will remain unanswered. But maybe GOD needed you in heaven to cheer up those who are homesick!!! But whatever it is I'm sure GOD had a reason for taken you when he did, why else would he take the nicest person out of our lives. I want to thank you Tom for everything you did for everyone even the simle things like giving us hugs or waving at us in you car, just that little second I know made people smile - cause it made me smile. It just goes to show that you should never take the simpliest things for granted becasue one day they may not be here. I want to thank Tom for always taking care of Emily, you ARE like her best friend. She come into school and talk about you Tommy, you were her Angel, her supernova, her one and only knight in shing armour - alwasy there to save the day and take away the pain. WOW, I'm still in shock, still in a daze, but I suppose Ill have to get used to it. I love you Tommy and am gonna miss you so much. One last thing, when your teaching GOD to dj, teach him good cause when I'm up there I want to be raving non-stop. Forever in my heart. Love you Love Evonne P. P.s to all Toms family and Friends keep smiling, be strong and never forget that you have everyones support if you feel you can't go on. Keep your head up. Love you xxx :o)xxx
Gav at 21:16:53 Tuesday March 12 2002 This is for Tom im really sorry for all that went on between us and i regret everything that happened i cant beleive that i saw you monday morning and thought to myself that maybe we'd sort out our differences and now its too late. I regret our petty little rows that stopped us talking for the time that was left of your life if only there was some way that i could change the past and bring you back or even just sort it out while i had the chance. But being the dopey fool i am i didnt even try to sort it out before you went. I dont think any one could know how i feel becuase i didnt talk to you i miss you so much and i wish you were here. But i know in my heart that you've gone to a better place now and your every where i go no matter where i am i know you'll be watching all of us. All my best wishes Gav. There will be a place in my heart for you for the rest of my life. I love and miss you Tom Fox x x x
mel and family at 21:2:5 Tuesday March 12 2002 What can i say....its not often im lost for words...you were a great person. God bless you...my thoughts are with your Dad,Mum and sister Emily...Rest in Peace Tommy. Mel xx
Conrad at 18:10:24 Tuesday March 12 2002 Dear Tom, It is exactly a week (almost to the minute) since I heard the awful news. I just could not and did not want to believe it. Over the week this web site has been my small contribution to your memory and have been astounded by the response. This page demonstrates what an effect you had on people - not just in the large numbers of messages but also in the depth of feeling that has been expressed. I have had the pleasure of knowing you for over 10 years and during that time I have only ever known you to be happy, funny and caring. I could not have wanted for a better nephew. I am really sad that Ollie and Millie will not get to know their big cousin Tom...and as Sarah has said already, if Ollie grows up anything like you I will be truly happy. The picture on this site of you and Uncle Len in suits and top hats at our wedding, I find particularly poignant, as you are now both sadly no longer with us. I'm sure now however, you are both trading jokes together and keeping everybody around you laughing. Tom, we are going to miss you. Until we meet again, take care. Love Conrad, Sarah, Ollie and Millie XXX
Darren Thomas at 16:41:39 Tuesday March 12 2002 Dear Tom, in the short time that I knew you I found your enthusiasm for life, your laughter and your respect for all around you second to none. It’s difficult to sometimes put into words that are appropriate, but what I would like to say is that it was a pleasure knowing you and deep down in my heart and reading these messages sent before me is that you will be sorely missed from this world. Keep smiling, as I’m sure you will and I look forward to seeing you up there. Darren x
JO AND LISA at 16:21:23 Tuesday March 12 2002 DEAR TOM, SO MUCH TIME HAS GONE BY WHILST TRYING TO THINK OF WHAT TO SAY, WE ARE LOST FOR WORDS. IT'S SO HARD TO BELIEV THAT SOMETHING SO TRAGIC HAS HAPPENED TO SUCH A GREAT FRIEND. YOU WERE THE LIFE AND SOUL OF ANY PARTY, ALWAYS WIH A SMILE ON YOUR FACE. OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO EM'S AND YOUR FAMILY, AND WE WILL BE THERE FOR THEM AS MUCH AS WE CAN FOR HOWEVER LONG. WE WILL ALWAYS LOOK BACK ON THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER WITH A WARM SMILE. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS MATE! WE WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH. ALL OUR LOVE JO AND LISA XXXXXXX
Uncle Podge & Auntie June at 15:56:31 Tuesday March 12 2002 The Redbourn Foxs'are once again facing great sadness. We shall miss dear Tom's lovely smile and miss the friendship the future years should have given us. May you rest in eternal peace. All our love, Podge June and family.
Mark Thomas at 14:46:16 Tuesday March 12 2002 Dear Tom, I have been sitting at this computer for over an hour trying to find the right words to describe what it is that made you so special, many people on this site know you much better than i did, but i suppose the one thing i want to say is thanks, thanks for being. When a person so full of life dies young it is truly heartbreaking, life is cruel and dosen't make sense. The love and joy you gave to everyone will never die and neither will you because you live on in everyones hearts and memories. I will think of you sitting in a room next door smiling, a room i don't have the key to yet. See you soon Mark x
campbell at 13:44:31 Tuesday March 12 2002 Dear Tom, No words could ever describe the amount of love I felt for you mate, quite simply you were the best, for somebody so young I was always amazed by how mature you were, you also had so many more strenghts, kind-hearted, generous you always showed so much love for everybody around you & I know that everybody who knew you loved you so much, your main strength was your ability to make people laugh, you could light up a room with your unique sense of humour & have people in stiches, not everybody has that ability to spread so much joy & that's what made you such a special person, & now you have gone & that's left such a great big hole in my life, the whole world will be less colourful place without you mate & although i'm in pain now, in time i will be able to look back on the time i spent with you & really laugh & smile, their were so many great times we spent together in the 2 & a half years i've known you, some people you can know a whole lifetime & not connect with them or share such a very special friendship which we had, whatever I achieve in my life the proudest thing I can say & can never be taken away from me was that you were my FRIEND & I will carry that forever in my heart, I'm really going to miss you Tom, but I know that you will be their for me always & that you will always be there when we all get together as a group to go clubbing, were we spent our happiest times. I can't wait till the day we meet again, see ya soon yeah! all my love Campbell xxx
Emma Clark at 13:38:19 Tuesday March 12 2002 To one of my close friends Tom. I can' t believe I'm not going to see you again. You were always the highlight of any party. The way you made people laugh by doing crazy things like dressing up in funny clothes and talking in your german accent. You will be greatly missed by lots of people. You were a great friend. Take care and I'm sure I will see you again..Lots of love Emxx
Mark Eagle at 11:7:5 Tuesday March 12 2002 Tom's family and close friends. May i offer my deepest sympathy for the loss of your loved one. Mark
Daniel Collins at 11:2:7 Tuesday March 12 2002 Tommy Boy, i dont know what to say i spoke to you the night before and we had a great laugh together, we spoke for nearly 2 hours telling jokes talking about what each other have been up to, askin each other how we have been in life, im hurt tom, you were the greatest, a superstar. Tom you were always great your smile is something you never see everyday but you smiled everyday, i love ya man you were a really great friend, see you soon *TOMMY BOY* xxXXxx (we will always remember you in our hearts)
Daniel Collins at 11:1:38 Tuesday March 12 2002 Tommy Boy, i dont know what to say i spoke to you the night before and we had a great laugh together, we spoke for nearly 2 hours telling jokes talking about what each other have been up to, askin each other how we have been in life, im hurt tom, you were the greatest, a superstar. Tom you were always great your smile is something you never see everyday but you smiled everyday, i love ya man you were a really great friend, see you soon *TOMMY BOY* xxXXxx
Jay Kaliszewski at 10:58:46 Tuesday March 12 2002 Tom, my mate, my friend. The last 6 days have been so surreal, I'm having difficulty writing this. If your looking down at me right now - you will see how I'm feeling and what I'm trying to say, you'll see the tears in my eyes and the love in my heart that I have for you. I only knew you for a few years, but in that short time, I got to know a lad who had a big heart and a fantastic smile, I'm gonna miss our chats, our hugs, our meeting up for drinks, that look you gave when you knew you were acting like a naughty lad, those cheeky grins and the laughs we had clubbing, as specially when you got onto the dance floor. Tom, you will always be in my thoughts, in my heart and I will always be proud to say that I knew you and that we were friends and will be friends forever. I hope we get to meet up again one day. Cheers Mate, All my love Jay.XX
lesley Wallder at 9:28:31 Tuesday March 12 2002 Tom, what do i remember most about you? your smile, so big ,so wide and so genuine. I missed seeing you at our house, remember when you used to sit and chat with David and I? We never did take you sailing did we.You were a lovely person who touched and lit up the lives of everyone who knew you. I will miss you very much,you were a wonderful person taken from us far too soon, if there is a purpose to this terrible tragedy i hope its a good one. love and kisses. Lesley (Gavins mum)
TRADESTEVE at 5:23:52 Tuesday March 12 2002 Tom I've been in a bit of a daze since I heard.I'm heartbroken! I got your last text message the weekend before what happened.I'm sorry I didnt get get a chance to get back to you. When you sent me a text 6 weeks ago while I was in hospital,ill with asthma, you made me feel better straight away. One thing for sure, I will remember you forever!!! You are a diamond geezer...but your sparkle was the most brilliant. You had a smile that said it all...that made people want to get to know you. I feel priviliged that I had that opportunity. You never did make it to TRADE with Rod did you? Now in heaven go and find Tony De Vit will you and tell him from me and the Trade Posse to look after you and show you the decks. Just keep the music hard up there will you...just the way you liked it! Just reading the other messages here only shows how many other lives you brightened up and touched in your own unique special way. My heartfelt condolences to your family and to Emily because I know how much you both meant to each each other. If I ever feel down I'm always going to think of your winning smile, your sense of humour, those mad nights out. Right now it hurts. Thankyou Tom for the friendship. I cant believe you are no longer with us. Until we meet again raver. Miss you and love you lots Steve Johnson xx
Eric Collins at 23:52:24 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, im hurt, I remember when we was at school and just used to kick it in summer. Just taking it easy and messing around like you do. i used to see you all the time, driving past me and giving us a wave in your car. Just seeing your pictures on this site is tearful. You are a wonderful guy Tom and im really gonna miss you. everyone is going to miss you. I love you man, see you soon. xXx To Mum, Dad and Emily. If you need anything, anything at all, dont hesistate to contact me. Take care.
Ned, Sue, Vix (emilys family) at 22:0:35 Monday March 11 2002 Dear Tom, we never thought there would be anyone good enough for our Em, But then she brought you home to meet us you were so shy. Then we got to know you, Your smile so sweet Your eyes so bright we knew with you she'd be ok. Our minds are easy that she met someone so Kind, Friendly, Nice and Good. We have Good memorys of you Tom, like when you came for Christmas and New years you were so nervous meeting us all, but you soon fitted in. We are all Being strong for Emily and trying to help her through, but you were such a big part of her life. We will always be there for her, and we know you are watching over us all. You will always be In our Hearts Tom, You were such a Lovely young man Love you and we will Miss you forever. Theres an extra special angel in heaven watching over us all now......ned sue little vix -x-
Luis Vargas at 21:55:19 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, ever since I found out what happend to you one word keeps popping up in my head WHY?? of the people in the world WHY YOU? I dont think I'll ever know. in the little time I knew you I knew you were one of the nicest people I've come across, its a shame you had to go so soon, so where ever you are, what ever you're up to, take care and we'll catch up soon! Love Luis xx
fitzy at 21:34:5 Monday March 11 2002 the good die young so they say and one off the best died last tuesday your up in heaven now having the craic but what wed all give to have u back take care tom and watch over your family
Luis Vargas at 21:25:11 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, since I found out what happend to you the one word that keeps popping in my head is WHY? of all people in the world WHY YOU?... I dont think I'll ever know. In the little time I knew you, I knew you were one of the nicest people I've come across, its a shame you had to go so soon so where ever you are what ever you're up to make sure you stay cool, and the next time I have the pleasure we'll have a wicked night! until then my friend take care. Love Luis xx
Luis at 21:4:49 Monday March 11 2002
Natasha+family at 19:50:0 Monday March 11 2002 Hey i dunno where to start you was so great and i hardly even knew you. You were loved by everyone and u still are and that was because you were, no still are gorgeus, funny, a laugh u were tops! You were such a star and i know you're shining down in the sky at us lot right now! thats how i know no one is going to ever forget you! Both Emily's and family and friends i know you will never forget him too. Just remember all the good times and all those smiles he has on his face all the time ( i bet he is even smiling now), there was never any bad times because that was the sort of person he was! Me and my family we will miss him loads and i know you will never forget him! love tasha, michelle, chris, dan, claire, kim.m, we all miss him!!!
sam at 18:53:53 Monday March 11 2002 I didnt really no tommy but i know that everyone that did loved him dearly and will miss him loads. Remember he will always be there in your heart. Good luck to all the ones that loved him dearly and i no that alot of you did. Tommy make sure that you keep an eye on everyone. I am sure that you will.
Sean Woodhead at 18:45:38 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, words cannot express our sorrow for the loss of such a beautiful person, your personality, your smile, your wicked sence of humour are just a few of the many qualities that made up Tom Fox, If anybody deserved a chance of a full and successful life it was you. All that knew you will agree you filled their lives with warmth, love and sincerity, you will be missed by all, more than you will ever know but you will never be forgotten, you will remain in our thoughts and our hearts for the rest of our lives, the world feels empty without you, until such time we meet again, god bless and my love to you lovely girlfriend emily and my deepest sympathy to your family love sean xxx
Mark Benson at 17:59:6 Monday March 11 2002 Hi Tom, I know when we all heard everyone was stunned to say the least. The worst thing about this is that you just feel 'blank' but mostly self pitty for what might have been. I know life deals out some harsh cards, but believe me mate if we were all present when you cards were handed out everyone would want you to be delt a new hand. In the short time that i knew you you were a good friend and the reason why you will be so sorley missed is because you were truley loved. I don't know when i'll see you but I look forward to the day. Love Mark x
LLoyd "Hoop" O'Donnell at 17:42:58 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, the end of an era .Your history as one of " Three Shandy Drinkers " is short, but lengendary.I, like so many others have had the pleasure of your honored company, pre Xmas lunch won't be the same, but at that festive time of year; every Ale drunk every pipeing hot Xmas pudding eaten will be a celebration of your joyous life. When that time comes, which is due to us all, you,ll be at the great bar in the sky with a cool glass of beer in one hand.... and LEMONADE in the other. Take Care of yourself. Leroy x
Anon at 17:27:15 Monday March 11 2002
Debbie at 17:21:45 Monday March 11 2002 Tom-mas , I finally got to meet you at Ems funky 70s party and I thought 'yeah, this bloke's alright for my mate Ems', infact you were a top bloke, always up for a laugh, always smiling and always just being Tom. I remember the great laugh we had at Em and Lucys christmas dinner- what a scream we all had, drinking that punch, playing pass the parcel (with you coming worse off!), the wacky Chrimbo presents!!!. However I have a confession to make..it was me who put the immac on your eyebrows when you fell asleep in the front room!! I'm so sorry you were taken from us all, and more importantly from your family and Ems, but you will always be in our hearts and minds. Lots of Love..DebsX
Debbie at 17:0:22 Monday March 11 2002 Tom-mas, I finally got to meet you at Ems funky 70s party and
OLLIE FISH at 16:52:55 Monday March 11 2002 To tom you were a geeesa and everyone loved u including me the last few years we had some really cool times and im really gonna miss that.I would write down all the cool things about u but i dont think this web site is big enough.You were a great laugh to be with and im never gonna 4get u lots of love Olliex
Lianne and Michelle at 15:52:40 Monday March 11 2002 Well Tom, its been years since we last both saw you. We're two of the three 'Widgets' at Cunningham Hill. Even then at the age of 9 or 10 you were bloomin hilarious. I cant ever remember you without a smile on your face. That picture of you and David Nicholls in the picture gallery brought all the memories flooding back, those were the days, no cares in the world. Long time no see but you will always be a pleasant memory for the both of us, especially Michelle, he he he!! Take care up there and do them proud xxxxxxxxx
Karl at 15:30:11 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, like many people I hadn't known you for very long - looking through all the photo's I realise that and somehow feel a little strange adding to this list, when I see the messages from people that have obviously played such large roles within your painfully short life. One recuring theme, is your smile and great sense of humour and they are certainly qualities I'd attribute to you. Anyone that starts of a text message 'Hello treacle' has got to be alright in my books !! All I can say is that you'll be sorely missed, it truly is a terrible shame and certainly puts things into perspective !! Lets hope there is life after this World, and that you're there to brighten things up - keep smiling. Karl x
Rod at 15:6:48 Monday March 11 2002 Dear Tom, been trying to think of what to say to you mate. I love you bro and I can't believe you've been taken from us. I'm proud to say that I was one of the lucky people who knew you, and that you were one of my best friends. I am never gonna forget the wicked times together mate, most of the best times I've ever had were with you, and I'm going to cherish the memories of them forever. I can't wait until I see you again mate, and we can catch up on all the missed times together. Thinking of you always... Rod.
Michelle Agyei at 14:59:5 Monday March 11 2002 Hey Tom i still cant believe whats happened you will be missed loads. My finest memomory of you would definatley have to be when i saw you in just a towel getting ready to go out. You had such a big impact on everyone and was just like a big brother. All my love to you, your family and close friends love Michelle Agyei ;-)
Jenny at 14:50:56 Monday March 11 2002 Hi Tom, I know I didn't know u that well but the things i've heard about u hav made me laugh.Don't worry about Emily all her friends will look after her, me included.Thinking of u.Jen.
Emma Wiltshire,Jenny,Michelle,Evonne at 14:39:6 Monday March 11 2002 Hey Tom, its us girls here, we miss you very much and we miss your smile you always seemed to have a smile on your face no matter what the situation, you was a person to look up to, also to talk to. Don't worry about Emily we are gonna take good care of her and do our best to help her get through this we will also look after your mum dad and girlfriend emily we will miss your cheeky smile!!!! Missing you always love Michelle, Jenny, Evonne and Emma wiltshire
Holly (Kim's Sister) at 14:21:35 Monday March 11 2002 Dear Tom, I have not seen you since you were a wee boy, living near my sister. You always had a beautiful smile and a naughty glint in your eye. I have very fond memories of you playing with Charlotte and being a real 'boy'. My heart goes out to your family for their loss......reading the condolences, you were obviously a true friend and a wonderful person to know. I hope that you are at peace and that you will watch over your loved ones forever - they know already that you are with them every single day - in their memories, their hearts and mostly, in their soul. God bless you, Tom xxxxxxx
Holly (Kim's Sister) at 14:9:35 Monday March 11 2002 Dear Tom, I have not seen you since you were a wee boy, living near my sister. You always had a beautiful smile and a naughty glint in your eye. I have very fond memories of you playing with Charlotte and being a real 'boy'. My heart goes out to your family for their loss......reading the condolences, you were obviously a true friend and a wonderful person to know. I hope that you are at peace and that you will watch over your loved ones forever - they know already that you are with them every single day - in their memories, their hearts and mostly, in their soul. God bless you, Tom xxxxxxx
Warren Jeggo at 13:38:50 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, I'm lost for words. Remember how much we used to pratt about! I just wish that all those times when I bumped into you, and we planned to go out, we had of!! Now I will never have the chance to tell you how much of a good friend you were. I hope you can see everyone now, and understand exactly how much you meant to each of them. I will never forget you Tom and will always have the love for you that friends have for each other!!
Bryony (B) at 13:8:2 Monday March 11 2002 Sorry about the blank message im a bit crap with computers !!!!! I just wanted to say even though I didn't know you for that long Tom I will miss you. You were a blinding bloke. My thoughts are with your family and Emily now. R.I.P XxXx
Bryony (B) at 13:4:7 Monday March 11 2002
yr11 francis bacon at 12:38:49 Monday March 11 2002 miss you loads!!!!! we send are love and hope you all the best in the future. the pictures are lovely and are a great memory of tommy!! it's a shame this has happened, he was a great, young, talented, good looking fella!! all are love Tasha, Jem, Nomsa, Emma, Emma Wain, jen, Micheal kempson, Hanna!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Lucy ( Emilys sister ) at 11:37:7 Monday March 11 2002 Tom, I just don;t know where to start. I still can;t believe it. Its just so unfair. You were so young and had so many plans and were always so full of fun! You'd always say " I ain;t wearing that! No way " when we had fancy dress ideas, and you were the one who ended wearing it all.. and wearing it so well ! I loved your RIcky Martin impressions. I didn't realise just what a part of our lives you were until you were taken from us so suddenly. Theres so many things..you fixed our tap, you danced to Status Quo with our Dad on New Years Eve ( ha! secrets out ! ) We shaved your eyebrow at Christmas ! You were part of the Shandy Drinking trio ! You had to eat a whole packet of Airwaves at pass the parcel...sorry about that ! You carved our names on a table on ST Patricks day wearing the hat u got for drinking 4 pints of guinness...so many things !! I am gonna miss u so much. What scares me though Tom is that if I am feeling this bad, I can't comprehend how Emily feels. You were her reason. Everything she did she did with you in mind. That won't change, its just that you won;t be next to her to share it. That makes me so so sad. I am trying to be strong. It is so hard, but I know you are looking down at us, and want you to know that I am gonna be there for her always. Tom, we are all so angry and upset. You will be in our hearts and our minds forever. Miss u so much ! Juicy Lucy xxxxxxxx
Mandy, Allan, Toni & Alix at 11:21:57 Monday March 11 2002 Dear Tom, we only knew you for a small part of your life, but for the two and half years or so that we knew you we grew to love you loads. You always made people smile and our girls always looked forward to seeing you. You will be missed greatly. We will take care of Em for you as we love her loads to. Our condolences to Alf, Angie and Emily and our thoughts are with you. Mandy, Allan, Toni & Alix XxXxXxXxXxX
becky at 11:19:15 Monday March 11 2002 I have to say i was always a bit jealous of you, cause i know how much my dad cared and thought of u, u were the son he never had,I hope to see you again someday, and you'll never be forgotten! All my love Becky xxx
kerrie at 10:37:1 Monday March 11 2002 Tom i cant believe i am never going to see you again i miss you so much and feel lost without you. im gald i was lucky enough to say i knew you and sure everyone else who knew you will feel the same way. You touched my heart when we were five and have had a special place ever since. i always imagined that one day we would be together. i wish you wasnt gone. i hope you are okay and know just how many people love you like i do. i still have your necklace you gave me for my 16th and said i can have it for a week Ha! ill never take it off its so special to me like you. you were so full of life and always made everyone smile and i hope ill meet you again some day i will always remember you and the good times we had you looked after me and were like a brother i always knew that if i was with you i was safe. i wish i never let you slip so far away but knew you never forgot about me i love you Tom with all my heart your a special person life without you will never be the same. My Mum misses you too and your cheeky ways and when you used to say to her hello darlin are you getting your leathers on tonight. She loved you like a son and i know that if my Brother turns out like you she be very proud. i wish you were hearing me say all this to you ill never forget you. Your in my heart. Take care Babes Speak soon Love you x x x x
Uncle Jamie at 9:23:33 Monday March 11 2002 Dear dear Tommy,there is a light that never goes out,with your courage and spirit you will find it,and when you do we will all be together again,for without you our lives can never be complete.Love allways,Jamie,Tracey,Annie&Alfie
Livia at 9:21:56 Monday March 11 2002 Dear Tom, There's that saying that goes you never know what you've got till it's gone, well I'm just so glad that I knew what we had b4 u left us. I've got sooo many memories of you, like when we dressed u up in a long leather coat with face mask on and wearing specs and then you went down to the shop to get milk. Or when me you and Ron went out at 4am and started doing cartwheels in the park. You were such a special person Tom and I'm lucky to be able to call u my friend. I'll look after Em for you, we all will. We're gonna have so much to catch up with when we meet again. I love you Tommy boy and you'll be in my heart forever.... Livia
Greig Martens at 0:6:57 Monday March 11 2002 Tom what can i say, i love you. We had some wicked times, and i wish we'd had more! Every time i went out with you, I knew i was gonna have a good time. I will truly miss you, I just wish we'd stayed closer. Have fun wherever you are, I know you'll make the most of it.
J & D at 22:48:59 Sunday March 10 2002 Our deepest sympathy to Tom's family, loved ones and friends. Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there I do not sleep, I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush, of quiet birds in circled flight, I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die.
Tisha&Boys at 22:22:38 Sunday March 10 2002 Darling Tom,it's so sad to loose someone so special,you were my little page boy when you were only 3,I'll never forget how handsome you looked in your grey velvet suit & dickie-bow,even though you said you looked like 'a pub singer!'Wish I'd known you better in recent years-but there was always a big smile & hug for me whenever we met up!Miss you lots Tom,love to Mum Dad & Emily-Tish,Rory,Jamie&Robbo xxxxxxxxxx
JO&KIDS at 15:33:20 Sunday March 10 2002 Dear Tom, just wanted to say we love ya loads and will really miss you.Unfortunately you never got to see your two little cousins and that`s something I really regret. Alfie, Angie and Emily what can I say?I really don`t know and I don`t really think there are any words except that we`re thinking of you all!!Jo(Dan`s girl), Robyn and Max
Anon at 12:21:15 Sunday March 10 2002 Tom, I just wanted you to know how annoyed I am with myself. I'm annoyed that it took such a tragic accident for me to realise just how much you actually meant to me, I never thought anything like this would effect me so much. I wish I had the chance to tell you, now its too late - but I know you are reading this and I know you know who I am - sorry xx
MARTIN ROGERS at 12:2:30 Sunday March 10 2002 TOM, there`s not a lot i can say except you were one of lifes great guys.i`ll miss ya loads.MARTIN
JAMES BARRETT at 0:13:29 Sunday March 10 2002 Dear Tommy, I met you when I was your age and I will never forget the times we had.Alfie Angie yourself & Emily were friends when it really mattered.NEVER FORGET YOU TOMMY ALL MY LOVE JAMES BARRETT & THE CORK CREW
james barrett at 23:59:35 Saturday March 9 2002 TOMMY, JAMES here, I met you when i was your age and you became my friend we had times in BERLIN that I will treasure all my life.Alfie,Angie& my darling Emily were freinds to me when it mattered.Sorry I hadn't been in touch but i never will forget you your'e a gem. ALWAYS AND FOREVER TOMMY. ALL MY LOVE JAMES BARRETT AND ALL THE CORK CREW.
anne at 22:23:38 Saturday March 9 2002 Dear tom, everyone is thinking of you down here, thinking of how much happiness you brought to everyones lives.....you are missed so much by everybody, but we will all think of you for the brilliant person you were, and always will be, loads of love 2 you and em, angie and alf from annexxxxxxxxx
joel(lick) at 20:42:34 Saturday March 9 2002 dear tom i can not say how much you are missed already from the first time i met you,you stayed a true friend and top mate you brought the fun and laughs with you all the time.i am so grateful for the time i had with you and you will always be in my heart forever.in the dictionary the explanation of friend should have your name next to it.i know one day we will meet again.all my love joel.
Sarah Prince at 20:28:40 Saturday March 9 2002 Tom! i think i am speaking on behalf of everyone that knows you, when i say that you will always be remembered espeacially, with all the laughter you brought to our lives. Not only that but, you were easy to talk to and very sincere. I know things will be different but, our memories of you will never be lost. To a dear friend. Love Sarah.P
Sabrina.Sandiford at 20:22:31 Saturday March 9 2002 To our dear friend Tom! How are you doing up there? With the softest cloud and the whitest dove upon the wind of heavens love. As i sit here now i still can't believe you have gone. Your going to be so missed down here by everyone that knows you. Everytime i saw you, you always made me smile, you always knew how to lighten up everyone's day. Tom, you were the worlds greatest and one in a million mate that anyone could of wished for, and i'm so glad i met a true angel that was you Tommy. I know you are shinning down on us, but you take care up there. Deep in our thoughts, your memory will live on and will never ever be forgotten. RIP, all my love Sabrina
Fitzgerald Family at 19:42:49 Saturday March 9 2002 Thinking of you Ang,Alf and Emily at this devestating time wish there was something we could say or do to ease the pain. Tommy was a great laugh and he will always be missed by everyone that knew him, he has left a void in a lot of peoples' lives.We bet that he has made Heaven a better and livelier place already! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Elaine Blande at 17:32:55 Saturday March 9 2002 Raise the roof in heaven with your music tommy, turn the decks up loud and get the part going. thinking of you angie, alf and em. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Pat Stanley at 16:42:20 Saturday March 9 2002 There are no words that I can say just how I feel. You were always ready with a smile and always liked to chat, the twins best friend. From play school days and always kept in touch. Taken from us all to soon, you will always be in our thoughts. Perhaps we will meet again in another life God bless Tom. Pat Stanley
Midge at 15:50:43 Saturday March 9 2002 My Darling Tom. I would like to say something really funny that would always remind me of you but there are just too many funny things to say about you, too many stories to tell. Your cheeky grin, that twinkle in your eyes and those lashes that could win and break a thousand hearts in a flutter. I am proud to have shared the laughter and the tears, the good times and the bad that made you in to the blinding bloke you are.You were a very special person in our lives Tom and we have been privillaged to have known you. Babe you are our sunshine on a rainy day!! I love you, I am proud of you, and i will miss you with all my heart. You will be held tight in our hearts until we meet again. Keep smiling!! with all my love aways Midgey xxxxx & dont worry i will take care of the old folks down here you just watch out for that lot up there.!!
Tracy Matthews at 13:59:47 Saturday March 9 2002 To our Lovely Yellow Tommy!!! You were always the Sunshine in our lives, and you were always the bright yellow boy/man, you will always be in our thoughts and one day we will all be together again having a good laugth just like the old days. Love ya and miss ya always. Tracy, Colin & Nathan
Ronnie (Ronsta) at 12:41:0 Saturday March 9 2002 My dearest Tommy Boy. If only I could be saying these words to you face to face, although I know you will get the message. In the last few days it has been so hard coming to terms that you are no longer with us and we will no longer be able to do the things together that we used to. But I know deep down that whatever I do in the future, you will always be with me, by my side and enjoying every minute of it like you always did. Tommy, you touched so many people, leaving your own inimitabe mark. Everybody loved you. No words could ever explain my feelings for you, although I always sensed you knew. Your spirit will remain with me for ever until I am ready to join you. I love you Tommy.
Daniel Skeggs at 22:32:53 Friday March 8 2002 hi eeerr i dont really kno wot to say but all i kno is tommy everyone loves u and is missing u loads and i wanna say emz babe i love u and im always here if u need some one to talk to love scan
Claire & Amy at 22:21:43 Friday March 8 2002 Thinking of you lots, you are in our hearts forever, we will always remember the good times with you. Never a day goes by without thinking about you. Lots of love, your cousins Claire and Amy
Graham Stanley at 22:7:44 Friday March 8 2002 Tom you are already sadly missed by me as I will have no one to rib, or even rib me back.. I will always remember the times we had even when you were young you could even hold your own then... I will miss your Jokes and your fine sense of humour... I hope where you are now happiness will be there for you... Thanks for the time you have given me in your life a very sad Graham (Miss you Lots Tom) Graham Scott and Mels Dad..
vicky and donna bramwell at 21:54:21 Friday March 8 2002 I grew up with Tom all through school. I will always have fond memories of him, he could always make you laugh! He was so cheeky! It is such a tragic thing that has happened and our thoughts are with his family and friends. you'll never be forgotten. Stay safe in heaven, luv vicky and donna xxx
donna at 21:39:37 Friday March 8 2002 Tom you wil be missed greatly and you are forever in our hearts.To everyone that knew you you were always happy and loving and were there for your family and friends you always put people before yourself. love and miss you loads donna xxxxxx
kirsty at 20:37:3 Friday March 8 2002 dear emily,emily,alfie n angie i just want 2 say that im so sorry to hear about tommy and i'll be thinkin of you all love you kirsty =x=x=x=x=x=x=x=x=x=x=x=x=x=
Anon at 18:12:13 Friday March 8 2002 Hiya
Your little special sister!! at 22:50:50 Thursday March 7 2002 Dear tom, Hiya hun, How are you up there? I hope your ok and warm because down here its so cold hehe but the sun is shining because your shining down on me, I miss you so much and i love you so much, you are the world to me, You will always be in my heart and mind, just please never forget me, look at me as a i grow old and let me know you love me. I will look at you every night, the twinkling stars, because you are one of those stars and your the brightest one up there tom. Im totally lost without you its just nothing without you here, no one pulling in, in his little car in the drive after work :( its getting harder by the day, why didnt you pull through? I know you couldnt help it but why you? Why did it have to happen to you? Your everything to everyone! Theres an empty space in the drive, just like their is an empty space in me that space is a hole in my heart and will stay forver. You was too good and lovely, you wasnt meant to die your so young had everything . I hope you didnt feel the pain because im feeling it right now tom and believe me it hurts Im going to go, i hope to speak to you soon tom and see your beutilfull face, Love you always your little sister emily XxXxX
George and Kateski at 22:49:58 Thursday March 7 2002 Tomski, even though we didn't know you for that long, it felt like we'd known you all our lives. You were the most caring, generous and likeable bloke who always put a smile on our faces. We will deeply miss you but will never forget you. All our love George & Kate xxx
Grandad & Nan at 22:41:48 Thursday March 7 2002 To our dearest Grandson Tom What can we say, you will be so sadly missed and a huge hole will be left in our lives. You are such a wonderful grandson and lived your life to the full, you had so much to give, we will miss you so much. We will never forget you Tom. God bless and rest in peace. All our love always, Grandad and Nan xxxxxxxx
Anon at 22:15:30 Thursday March 7 2002 Night Tom! My thoughts will be with u tonight and always!! You were the world to me (and more). Rest in peace mate.
Emma Wiltshire at 22:9:35 Thursday March 7 2002 Hey i kno u was a great laugh sum1 to get on with who u could always chat to bout nefin u wanted to!!! EMILY and family and of course his best friends and ppl who was very close to him u got my support and emily if u want me to cum round or nefin i will do nefin for u just remember i am here luv u millionz Miss you tom luv u all bye love emma
Joey at 20:30:32 Thursday March 7 2002 Hiya!! I never knew you that well but I am still missing you loads, I am alwayz there for Em and your Mum and Dad!!! All I can remember is you coming downstairs and flexing your muscles to me, Em and me sis!! Love you lots, Joey XxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXx
jemma blande at 20:8:9 Thursday March 7 2002 hi tommy, i cant believe that i am never gonna see you again! you were such a great bloke. i love you, em and ur mum and dad loads and i am always looking out for them! i miss u loads already, u always made me laugh no matter what! you were like my big brother alwayz makin me laugh, looking out for me, anyway see you soon. missing you, love u alwayz jem xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Emily(his girl) at 18:58:22 Thursday March 7 2002 To my darline angel!!..It hant sunk in yet that Im never goin 2 see your beautiful face again!!..Everyone is being so supportive and tellin me they r all there 4 me!..But in all truenes the only person that could bring me any comfort now is u!!...Ive read all the meesages and spoken 2 all are friends and all of them say how funny you was and how much u made them smile!!..And they r so right!!..You was so so funny!!..But with me I miss everthing about u,your hands,your arm even your smelly feet!!!..I dont what direction 2 go in from 1 moment 2 the next!!..Im dazed!!...But I have the comfort of havin u in my heart and in my soul 4eva!!..There will always be a piece of u inside of me!!..So many people love you and will miss u badly,but we will go on and be strong 2gether as the family u would want us 2 be!!...See you soon my lil angel face and we can catch up on all teh cuddles and kisses we r missin out on!..Be good up there!!.I loved u 4eva your angel Emily!!
Emma Wain at 18:39:27 Thursday March 7 2002 Tommy thinking of you up there. Believe me, we will meet up one day. You were the one person I could not say bad things about. A fantastic bloke full of warmth!! You will be missed always. Love Emmaxxxxxxxx
Paul Christian at 18:37:8 Thursday March 7 2002 Tom,mate. Didn't get the chance to know you half as well as I would have liked, but I had enough time to realize that you are a genuinely lovely bloke and i'm the better for having the chance to have met you. Thanks.
NOMSA .K. at 18:10:22 Thursday March 7 2002 Im gonna miss ya mate. You were a true joker in primary school. You always used to be the one making everyone skin bare teeth. You are never going to be forgotten, believe me! On Tuesday the gates opened wide for you Tommy mate and I will never forget how bright the sun was shinning and believe me it never stopped! You will be well looked after. See you one day! RIP mate. Peace! Nomsaxxxxx
Sam Harkness at 18:7:16 Thursday March 7 2002 Dear Tom, I miss u already and I can't believe i'm never gonna see u again! I can't think of anyone I would rather of grown up with other than you, Emily and your family! You were like the second brother I never had!! I don't really know what to say apart from I can't understand why it had to be you, you had the rest of your life ahead of you and I miss u so much!! I will keep my eyes on Emily and make sure she don't get into any trouble. Love u loads 4eva and always Sam xxxxx
sarah at 17:17:17 Thursday March 7 2002 Dear Tom I just can’t believe I am not going to see you again and hear your jokes and have you there to make us laugh. You are going to be missed so much, everyone is heartbroken. I know I didn’t get to see you very often as you got older but when we did speak or see each other you would always give us a hug and be happy to see us, and you loved seeing Ollie. I will have so much to tell him about you when he gets older. I will cherish the Toy Story character you gave to him last summer. I have got some great memories of you when we were younger. I was only 10 when you were born and I was thrilled to become your auntie. I used to love staying with your mum in Worley Road when you were a baby and taking you out in your pram and then when you were a bit older you used to like coming with me to the stables. You spent most of your time sitting on the tractors and old fire engines. I will treasure my memories of you Tom and if Ollie grows up to be a son like you, I shall be really proud of him. You always seemed so happy and loved life, it isn’t fair that you didn’t have longer to do the things you loved doing. I look forward to the day we meet again. I love you Tom, all my love forever, auntie Sarah xxxxx
Simone at 16:29:14 Thursday March 7 2002 Tom, I know I didn't see you all the time, but the times that we did see eachother were so worthwhile - you've always known how to put a smile on my face and always managed to do so! I loved your company because you were such a magic lad to be around, you always had your cheeky grin and a twinkle in those gorgeous eyes!! You made everyone around you happy and everyone loved you, and I know there are a fair few others who would agree with me there! I will never forget you and all the stuff I had the chance to do with you, - You have always been a special person to me and you always will be - I am going to miss you Tom, take care x
NATALIE at 15:19:34 Thursday March 7 2002 To My Little Tomski, you were a true friend and I loved you like a brother,I shall miss you so much and you will be forever in my heart, I shall allways be thinking of you, I love you with all my heart and I shall look after Emily for you with all the love in the world Natski
Emily at 1:29:11 Thursday March 7 2002 Dear tom, i just want to say, we are all missing you so so much, you was the best and only ever brother i could have, now your gone but your always in my heart forever to stay! Speak and see you soon yeah. Love you, your little sis em XxXxXxXxXxXxX
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